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Originally posted by arpgme
reply to post by AQuestion
So what happens in a situation where something or someone is in your life that you don't want there, does truth over-ride the love and you stay true to yourself and stay away from that thing or person, or does love over-ride and you find a way to love this thing or person and put up with it inside?
Originally posted by arpgme
reply to post by AQuestion
So what happens in a situation where something or someone is in your life that you don't want there, does truth over-ride the love and you stay true to yourself and stay away from that thing or person, or does love over-ride and you find a way to love this thing or person and put up with it inside?
Originally posted by AQuestion
can I love someone that I believe is wrong, yep. Now here is a better question, can you?
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
Being 'honest' is just 'your opinion'.
Compassion is to not force 'your opinion' on others but to embrace diversity instead.
'Your' opinion is not truth.
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
reply to post by arpgme
'Your' truth is just an opinion, it is your personal like or dislike (preference).
Vanilla ice cream may taste bad to you but that does not mean the vanilla ice cream tastes bad.
If you live in a world of duality (good/bad, love/hate) then you are suffering. 'Your' honesty will get you into trouble. The 'truth' shall set you free of trouble.
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
reply to post by arpgme
'Your' truth is just an opinion, it is your personal like or dislike (preference).
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
reply to post by arpgme
'Your' honesty will get you into trouble. The 'truth' shall set you free of trouble.
Originally posted by arpgme
Originally posted by AQuestion
can I love someone that I believe is wrong, yep. Now here is a better question, can you?
So when you say "love" you are just talking about the physical wellbeing? There is a lot to a person and that includes their feelings, beliefs, and perspectives about the world, do you love Satanism too? Do you love that he is a Satanist? Or do you just care for his wellbeing and care for him as a friend? That "Satanist" part of him, you will always hate since you are a Christian, but you will probably still love him as a friend - him as a whole person.
If I hate "lies", then I hate to hate "liars" to some extent, maybe not their entire being, but a least the part of them that lies... (this is just an example), it is not full love.edit on 25-8-2012 by arpgme because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by seabhac-rua
reply to post by AQuestion
AQuestion,
Hope you are well, I wasn't ignoring you.
I agree with you, honesty and compassion are not mutually exclusive. In my way of thinking sincerity leads to compassion. People say things like "well I was just being honest" after they have said something hurtful, in truth they have just expressed an opinion without regarding somebody's feelings, and as we know, what is often considered 'the truth' is highly subjective. Also with regards to the OP, I feel that sincerity and compassion must also be directed inwardly, it is not a selfish thing to be aware of your own needs as a human being.
Peace.
edit on 25-8-2012 by seabhac-rua because: (no reason given)