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posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 07:38 PM
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reply to post by Sinny
 


Most judgments are based on morals, just as the guy claiming girls are dressing like "whores" made a moral judgment.

The bigger questions become:
Who's morals are correct? Are any moral judgments correct if people judge others based on a moral code that is not universal?




posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 07:41 PM
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Sinny, a great many men just simply act and think in a way that is at odds with your way of thinking. You can be appauled and disgusted all you want. Just don't ever be surprised by it. I'm a man, I'm not surprised by it. I don't think that way, and I generally don't have many male friends that do.

Therein lies what might possibly be the only solution. Don't associate yourself with men who behave and think this way. I doubt men are going to change anytime soon, both because enough men actually get what they want and succeed by thinking this way, and there are too many women that accept this as the way it is and the world they have to live in to bother voicing the way they feel about it. So good on you for that.

It goes along with ages-old ideas that women are "expected" to remain pure. So if they dress in a way that may provoke a man's sexual desires... well by golly she must be filthy! Of course this is a ridiculous leap of logic (or a lack thereof). It's based on an assumption and we all know what those can do.

I tend to go to festivals where a number of women walk around nude. Do some of them arouse me? Sure. But I don't feel compelled to act on it, nor is nudity equal to an invitation for intercourse, or a glowing neon sign that reads "f*** me now".

But this is just my opinion.



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 07:42 PM
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Originally posted by WhisperingWinds
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I've many male friends and have 3 ex partners, they all walked around shirtless when the heat was getting unpleasant, I've honestly never known them just to do it for attention, although to some that comes as a nice bonus, IF that's what they want.


I said in a mall, which usually have air conditioning. They are looking for that kind of attention, and I've been with men who have pointed it out, when they see a man do that, in an air conditioned mall.



Well now, another variable and assumption has been made, trust me, most buildings I entire are hot and humid in our summer, Its the middle of August and we had to have 2 fans and 2 windows open in work work office.



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 07:50 PM
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Indeed, another solid point there


Here's me officially defending my moral view.

In which I still hold firm is the correct one


I like to think I'm a rational thinker, where in all honesty, the quotes from people in my OP, have not JUST thought rationally, but also added some of their own sour experiences into the mix, therefore, clouding judgment, IMO, of course



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:00 PM
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Well now, another variable and assumption has been made, trust me, most buildings I entire are hot and humid in our summer, Its the middle of August and we had to have 2 fans and 2 windows open in work work office.


You seem to be the queen if assumptions , and flimsy excuses as well.

Like I said before , it was men who pointed out the obvious,and rolled their eyes up at it, and it was not HOT in the mall, but I guess you'll grasp at any straws to try and prove your point.

My point in this thread as well as the other is that women need to quit complaining about sexual attention, if they dress provocatively for the sole purpose of wanting admiration and attention for how they look.

I won't bother trying to debate anymore with someone who twists everything, and refuses to see the rational logic I use..

bye bye..have fun with your irrational "judgement" of what others are trying to say.

You are not as logical and rational as you may think you are.



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:01 PM
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The OP has honed into the axle of the argument with precision...

Any lame excuses for the perpetration, thought, or, rationalisation of rape, is an indication of the state of mind of the individual...IMHO...

...it is inexcusable, abhorrent and NOT a f****** joke...

Lasooing into the argument 13 year old girls is puerile (pardon the pun)...

...got to wonder about the mental age of some people!

A99



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:02 PM
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Right on, Sinny. Too many people make a crap-ton of excuses for male behavior, but none for the women. "Boys will be boys"....And the excuses and pity for testosterone-fueled craziness continues.

What people are failing to understand is, women are objectified in western culture. Their worth is always determined by how men view her. Is it any wonder that young women these days are dressing slutty, to get the maximum approval from a gaggle of ogling males? If men don't find a woman attractive, she is nothing but a dog, not worth giving the time of day to. Men do not have this issue. With men, their worth is tied to money. Equally sad, but a topic for another thread.

We as women are continually judged by our looks. Who cares if we're smart, educated or accomplished? It's all about how sexy we are to the opposite gender. Women my age (50s) are constantly running to the plastic surgeon to surgically hide the aging process, lest our husbands run off with some younger woman. Love apparently has nothing to do with marriage. How screwed up are we as a culture if this is the norm??

Look to the societal reasons behind why even young girls are dressing slutty. The men encourage it, and elevate the value of the female who does it. The media pushes it. Y'all say you don't like sluts, but the pornography industry is a multi-BILLION dollar industry. Imagine all the men who suddenly would have hours and hours of time on their hands if internet pornography were suddenly eliminated.

Tired of it, absolutely disgusted by misogynistic creeps who defend the indefensible. Honestly, I think most men secretly hate women for the "power" they have over them.. No wonder prostitutes make so much money...the prettier and sexier the ho, the more money she makes. The money comes solely from men...and nobody is twisting their arm to part with it, either.

As far as rape goes, I understand it to be a violent act by somebody who hates women. In that case, even old women far past their "expiration" date are raped. Let us not confuse how a woman dresses with an act of pure violence and hatred.

If society would stop objectifying women as sexual objects, and judging them solely on their looks, maybe this garbage nonsense regarding young girls starting to dress in ways that put their merchandise in the window will start to disappear. And the women dressing sleazy would no longer find their worth is tied to their sexual attractiveness. Then somebody would have to cook up another reason to justify rape.

Just my two cents. Bring on the flamage.
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posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:08 PM
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Like I said in the other thread, if I wore a cops uniform you might think me a cop.
Simple as that.
Some would say well what does a whore's uniform look like, and I say it looks like what the majority of people agree on, slutty wear.



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by Sinny
reply to post by randomtangentsrme
 


Indeed, another solid point there


Here's me officially defending my moral view.

In which I still hold firm is the correct one


I like to think I'm a rational thinker, where in all honesty, the quotes from people in my OP, have not JUST thought rationally, but also added some of their own sour experiences into the mix, therefore, clouding judgment, IMO, of course


Everyone primarily uses experiences to shape their beliefs, followed closely by learned behaviors.
I cannot remember which philosopher said there is no truth only perception, but just as others judgment was possibly skewed, remind yourself that yours may be as well.

I know mine is. Thank you visual and performing arts.



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:13 PM
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Originally posted by g146541
Like I said in the other thread, if I wore a cops uniform you might think me a cop.
Simple as that.
Some would say well what does a whore's uniform look like, and I say it looks like what the majority of people agree on, slutty wear.



Cops are public servants, are women dressed slutty as well?



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:14 PM
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Originally posted by g146541
Like I said in the other thread, if I wore a cops uniform you might think me a cop.
Simple as that.
Some would say well what does a whore's uniform look like, and I say it looks like what the majority of people agree on, slutty wear.


'...you might think me a cop...'

Projecting your opinion into a statement to shore up your argument (supposedly, knowing what another would think)...is revealing...

Slutty wear?

A99



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:16 PM
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As far as rape goes, I understand it to be a violent act by somebody who hates women. In that case, even old women far past their "expiration" date are raped. Let us not confuse how a woman dresses with an act of pure violence and hatred.


pffft..there are a multitude of reasons why men rape, and to say that ALL men who have raped do it because they love the violence and hate women, is untrue and very narrow minded. To say that some women who have dressed very provocatively had nothing to do with their rape , is again wrong. I'm not saying that the women is asking to be raped, but merely saying that some men cannot control their urges, and sometimes feel a woman is giving signals that she wants sex by how she dresses, and get angry and confused when they are refused sex, therefore resort to rape.

This is wrong on the mans part, and assumptive I agree, but he is not raping her because he hates women, and he is not raping her because he loves violence. He is raping her because he can't take no for an answer ,after foolishly assuming she was advertising for sex.

I didn't say all just many.

I think many rapists are men who read the signals all wrong, or got confused with the yes attitude and the no reality, and their ego could not take being shut down.

I'm not saying this makes it right for the men to rape, and anyone who reads it that way, is clearly missing the point I am trying to make.




We as women are continually judged by our looks. Who cares if we're smart, educated or accomplished? It's all about how sexy we are to the opposite gender. Women my age (50s) are constantly running to the plastic surgeon to surgically hide the aging process, lest our husbands run off with some younger woman. Love apparently has nothing to do with marriage. How screwed up are we as a culture if this is the norm??


I don't know what kind of man you married, or what kind of men you hang out with, but from experience I can say with absolute truth that not all men are that shallow, and many men love their 50 something wives, with love handles, and wrinkles around their eyes.

How sad that you would label all men as being that shallow.

Also i think many women get plastic surgery to appear better looking to other women, and other women will attest to that. Its more about competition with other women than pleasing their men, because their men are quite fine with how they are.




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posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:22 PM
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Are you kidding me?

As a man I call bs on this, guess what, I can control my urges just fine so can most of the male population.

So can all of my friends, the sight of an attractive women does not send Real men into a rape frenzy.

Only misogynistic D-bags think in that manner.


it's the misogynistic D-bags that ladies have to worry about. they don't always look like criminals. no beedie eyes, no lone ranger mask. most times they look like your neighbor, your friend, your family. and more often than not, the victim knows the rapist.

-subfab



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:47 PM
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To those that think women ask for rape because of how they dress, don't go to New York.

www.youtube.com...
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posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 08:58 PM
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Originally posted by akushla99
The OP has honed into the axle of the argument with precision...

Any lame excuses for the perpetration, thought, or, rationalisation of rape, is an indication of the state of mind of the individual...IMHO...

...it is inexcusable, abhorrent and NOT a f****** joke...

Lasooing into the argument 13 year old girls is puerile (pardon the pun)...

...got to wonder about the mental age of some people!

A99


pffft..never ONCE have I rationalized rape , only tried to point out that women like to toy with men, and attract attention in sexual ways, and then shut them down.

I think its unfair to men, but some obviously enjoy it, while others resent women for playing them, and using their natural instincts to control and manipulate them.



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 09:08 PM
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Originally posted by WhisperingWinds

Originally posted by akushla99
The OP has honed into the axle of the argument with precision...

Any lame excuses for the perpetration, thought, or, rationalisation of rape, is an indication of the state of mind of the individual...IMHO...

...it is inexcusable, abhorrent and NOT a f****** joke...

Lasooing into the argument 13 year old girls is puerile (pardon the pun)...

...got to wonder about the mental age of some people!

A99


pffft..never ONCE have I rationalized rape , only tried to point out that women like to toy with men, and attract attention in sexual ways, and then shut them down.

I think its unfair to men, but some obviously enjoy it, while others resent women for playing them, and using their natural instincts to control and manipulate them.



I apologise if You felt this was directed at You, in some way...I was speaking in a general sense...it is a common argument brought up by minds that would choose to find any other excuse than personal responsibility...

...and I agree, it is unfair for some men, that they get thrown into the wolfpit with other animals...resenting women?...choice!...insert a bargepole between these women and yourself...simple...

Natural instincts?

Like I said, or intimated, not all men are 'animals'...

Natural insticts is a way of abrogating responsibility...a diversionary argument...meant to diminish the degree to which SELF CONTROL BY A MATURE HUMAN BEING could and should operate...

That said, there are predators (see how the animal analogy keeps getting brought up?)...

A99



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 09:11 PM
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Originally posted by Lysergic

Originally posted by g146541
Like I said in the other thread, if I wore a cops uniform you might think me a cop.
Simple as that.
Some would say well what does a whore's uniform look like, and I say it looks like what the majority of people agree on, slutty wear.



Cops are public servants, are women dressed slutty as well?

They are not public servants because they are in the "privates" sector.


Originally posted by akushla99

Originally posted by g146541
Like I said in the other thread, if I wore a cops uniform you might think me a cop.
Simple as that.
Some would say well what does a whore's uniform look like, and I say it looks like what the majority of people agree on, slutty wear.


'...you might think me a cop...'

Projecting your opinion into a statement to shore up your argument (supposedly, knowing what another would think)...is revealing...

Slutty wear?

A99


You know what I say is very true, otherwise you would be daft or just not being honest.
We all know what a whore looks like, have you never heard a parent say, "you go change out of that, you look like a slut"!
If you wear the uniform...


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posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 09:15 PM
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Originally posted by g146541

Originally posted by Lysergic

Originally posted by g146541
Like I said in the other thread, if I wore a cops uniform you might think me a cop.
Simple as that.
Some would say well what does a whore's uniform look like, and I say it looks like what the majority of people agree on, slutty wear.



Cops are public servants, are women dressed slutty as well?

They are not public servants because they are in the "privates" sector.


Originally posted by akushla99

Originally posted by g146541
Like I said in the other thread, if I wore a cops uniform you might think me a cop.
Simple as that.
Some would say well what does a whore's uniform look like, and I say it looks like what the majority of people agree on, slutty wear.


'...you might think me a cop...'

Projecting your opinion into a statement to shore up your argument (supposedly, knowing what another would think)...is revealing...

Slutty wear?

A99


You know what I say is very true, otherwise you would be daft or just not being honest.
We all know what a whore looks like, have you never heard a parent say, "you go change out of that, you look like a slut"!
If you wear the uniform...


edit on 23-8-2012 by g146541 because: privates



I have been waiting for You to say exactly what You have just said (in reply to my post specifically)...

...only really proves what I have written in that post...projection...

Think a bit harder...

A99



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 09:23 PM
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Since they are connected...I post this from another topic...


The title of the OP pretty much reveals all on this matter...

A total abnegation of responsibility...

'Why do girls dress like whores'...???

...sorry...wrong question!

A99

It is indeed the wrong question...

A99



posted on Aug, 23 2012 @ 09:43 PM
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remember the movie shawshank redemption? remember the movie deliverence? were the guys dressed to get raped?





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