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My sister had a friend who got herself pregnant at a young age and hid it from her parents until she was about to give birth, and RIGHT THEN, decided she would get an abortion and needed transportation from my mom... there are issues with this, there really are.
Originally posted by OLD HIPPY DUDE
All I was doing was asking what men FELT about the topic.
There are a half a dozen abortion threads for women to post on.
BUT as usual women don't CARE what men think and feel it's alway about them.
Men are not allowed to say what they think or feel, thats why we leave them.
Originally posted by windword
Originally posted by OLD HIPPY DUDE
All I was doing was asking what men FELT about the topic.
There are a half a dozen abortion threads for women to post on.
BUT as usual women don't CARE what men think and feel it's alway about them.
Men are not allowed to say what they think or feel, thats why we leave them.
Surely you don't think that the strong outspoken women of ATS are going to sit back and reading silently, and sheepishly allow the men to bash their rights, integrity and impunity, unchallenged?
Originally posted by OLD HIPPY DUDE
Ignorance !
If you bright ladies could READ , I the OP support pro choice, as do several other men, but you don't CARE !
It's all about YOU !
Your pig headed ideas ,don't even want to hear what men feel on the topic even if we support you !
Grow up and learn to at least hear and read what men have to say, before you go off half cocked on your temper tantrum.
Men are not just sperm donors, we have thoughts and feelings , a real man loves his wife and children and supports his wife for better or worse.
Just because you failed as a woman it's not ever mans fault.edit on 28-8-2012 by OLD HIPPY DUDE because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by OLD HIPPY DUDE
So comprimising with the father of the child is out of the question ?
An all or nothing attitude can cost alot in any relationship.
Again that is your choice, . Having your cake and eating it to, ring a bell ?
I didn't think so.
Originally posted by Heresy
Having given birth a couple of times.. NO, they shouldn't. Chilldbearing is incredibly painful, pregnancy is just awful for many, and birth occassionally life endangering for women even in developed countries. The mans part in it is five minutes of grunting. It does not give a man the right to dictate what happens his sexual partners body if she gets knocked up. NOT his body.
Originally posted by Druscilla
Forcing anything, whether it pregnancy or abortion is no man's, and no one's right to say other than the woman involved.
As illustrated in some other's previous posts, you do a few minutes of of leaking fluid, and this somehow makes you King of the World with the power to order someone to suffer, risk their life, change their body drastically in the short term and in many ways forever as well, plus potentially sacrifice career, income, time, and over all general quality of life for the next 18 years? All because you leaked some fluid after a few minutes?
Girl has to deal with the product and consequences of your few minutes of gooping forever after.
It's her say.
Originally posted by windword
Someone is lying to you. Abortions aren't performed after 24 weeks, that's a far cry from "just about to give birth." They sure don't do them because the woman changed her mind at the last minute. Maybe she had some emergency complications and lost the baby, and you just heard wrong.
Originally posted by Charmed707
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
People are not animals.
They have CHOICES in regards to their sex drive.
There should seriously be financial compensation offered to those who will get themselves sterilized. I would love to see pro-abortionists try to argue for their 'right' to abortion in that circumstance.
Originally posted by SearchLightsInc
Actually we are, so get your science right.
People are driven by their hormones. By hook or by crook, any average human will seek sex. If we really had "choice" as you put it, then why is it people cant stop themselves thinking about sex? Oh yeah right, there's no choice when it comes to your sex drive.
I hope if they ever start sterilizing people, your type are first. Your ignorance is a complete and utter disgrace to the 21st century. Maybe you should spend more time educating yourself on ATS rather than at your weekly book burning sessions.
And btw, "9 measly months" is 3/4 of a a year. That's if you cant convert that, hardly a "measly" scale of time. Men need to get their nose's out of a women's business.
WE know whats best for us NOT YOU.
Originally posted by Druscilla
reply to post by OLD HIPPY DUDE
One very simple rule that everyone needs to learn that applies to every question:
The girl is always right, even when she isn't.
Learn it. Live it. Love it. Your life will be all the better for it.
edit on 23-8-2012 by Druscilla because: (no reason given)