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With women being taught that they aren't responsible for their actions, that they are completely helpless in what happens to them, and that they can claim 'rape' after having sex that they regret, this puts more men in danger of being falsely accused and prosecuted. If I had to choose, I'd rather be the victim of an actual rape than to be the victim of a false accusation of a crime as serious as rape.
Originally posted by zazzafrazz
reply to post by James1982
perhaps read my post here:
www.abovetopsecret.com...
which is my stance. It answers some of what you posted I hope.
Cheers Zedit on 21-8-2012 by zazzafrazz because: (no reason given)
Myth: Women fantasize about being raped.
Fact: No woman fantasizes about being raped. Fantasies about aggressive sex may be controlled and turned off if they become threatening. In rape, the victim is unable to control the violence and stop it.
Rape is a life changing experience. It stays with you. How you choose to deal with it however, makes you either a survivor or victim. I choose to be a survivor.
Originally posted by Charmeine
reply to post by Skywatcher2011
Try being on the receiving end of a rape. Then you can tell me the word you would use to describe it.
Originally posted by Charmeine
reply to post by Skywatcher2011
An old friend, and former love visited last week. He's been very mentally unstable and depressed. I was trying to show him some support by listening to him. I sat next to him on the couch. Next thing I knew, he was pinning me down and slapped me so hard on the cheek it left a mark. Luckily, I punched, kicked, slapped back and he finally stopped. He knew I was involved with someone else and still, it didn't seem to matter to him. He has not shown any signs of remorse since it happened and I know until he seeks help, he will try again.
If that was you in that scenario, what word would you use to describe it?
Attack is appropriate when describing a violent rape (or attempt). It's a violation of trust in every sense of the word.
Originally posted by jude11
reply to post by smyleegrl
While the site you point to lists many 'Facts' Why did you leave this one out?
Myth: Women fantasize about being raped.
Fact: No woman fantasizes about being raped. Fantasies about aggressive sex may be controlled and turned off if they become threatening. In rape, the victim is unable to control the violence and stop it.
Fact:Many women have a 'rape' fantasy. Well documented.
Although I will always agree that rape is a violent and personal assault, the fact is that many women have a fantasy of being taken against their will.
Any man knows the pillow talk of a woman will often bring this fantasy to the surface,
To say that it is a myth makes me believe that the writer of the column has an agenda that is not unbiased and perhaps may be a personal piece RATHER THAN A WELL RESEARCHED AND UNBIASED APPROACH.
Fact: Many women have fantasies of rape, forced sex and domination.
Peace
edit on 21-8-2012 by jude11 because: (no reason given)
I think it's important for women to know that they have a right to say no at anytime.
Originally posted by Vandettas
A close friend I know thought I would take her side after this happened : Let a man go down on her. LET HIM. Then, she claims she didn't want to have sex, so he raped her. Did she incite him? I want to hear your answer.edit on 20-8-2012 by Vandettas because: (no reason given)