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Originally posted by smyleegrl
I do feel uniquely qualified to address the issue of rape, because I am a rape survivor. My rape was devastating, and even twenty years later I still struggle with what happened. I’ve been diagnosed as having severe anxiety, major depressive disorder, and Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome. I will have to deal with this for my entire life; as must all survivors of violent crime. However, although I still struggle with what happened, my life has moved on. I try not to let myself be defined by what happened to me, but by what I choose to do with my life. Which is why I prefer the term rape survivor. I’m not a victim. I survived.
edit on 20-8-2012 by smyleegrl because: forgot those darn quotes...
Originally posted by live2beknown
But I swear the way they dress they asking for it, wearing short skirts and skimpy tank tops.. or booty shorts, obviously It's going to get the guy to look at them and "want" them..
Originally posted by live2beknown
reply to post by blupblup
wow seriously, you are a disgrace.. IF the girl didn't want to have that image on her, she wouldn't dress slutty or skimpy..It's her own choice to dress like that and knows the consequence for doing so.. She knows she is trying to get a guys attention and when you mix that with a guy who knows he can't get a girl like that and see's her and possibly been drinking.. Well you get that outcome of rape. Why do you think girls dress slutty and skimpy and go clubbing, cause 80% trying to get laid, or go home with a guy..trust me I been clubbing many times over the years..
Originally posted by live2beknown
reply to post by blupblup
IF the girl didn't want to have that image on her, she wouldn't dress slutty or skimpy..
It's her own choice to dress like that and knows the consequence for doing so..
Why do you think girls dress slutty and skimpy and go clubbing, cause 80% trying to get laid, or go home with a guy..trust me I been clubbing many times over the years..
Originally posted by Phenomium
reply to post by Charmeine
I said it was wrong. I am not saying that there is no empathy for women who get raped. I am saying that ther is NO empathy for men when they get raped by women (symbolically) in courts. For those of you who have male children and the lack of empathy for men....make a note of this one day some woman WILL seduce him, have a child and take him to court and rape him the only way they know how. Works the same when the shoe is on the other foot doesn't it?
Rape to a woman, is the physical manifestation of what they do to men in a divorce court every day, they use their children as their angry penis, and they get praised for it and called a victim by all other women as well as the courts allow them to do it. The symptoms that a man has after a woman does this are the same symptoms they have when they get physically raped.
One day women, some other woman's little girl who you are collaborating with, will take your little boy to court and rape him they only way they know how... and they will be rewarded for doing so.
Originally posted by smyleegrl
I dont want your pity, and I don't want your star. Thaqt's not the point of the thread, which is to educate people about rape. I suggest you read the thread in its entirety.
Originally posted by SeenAlot
Shame on every one of you that feel the victim has any responsibility.
Originally posted by live2beknown
reply to post by blupblup
wow seriously, you are a disgrace.. IF the girl didn't want to have that image on her, she wouldn't dress slutty or skimpy..It's her own choice to dress like that and knows the consequence for doing so.. She knows she is trying to get a guys attention and when you mix that with a guy who knows he can't get a girl like that and see's her and possibly been drinking.. Well you get that outcome of rape. Why do you think girls dress slutty and skimpy and go clubbing, cause 80% trying to get laid, or go home with a guy..trust me I been clubbing many times over the years..
wow seriously, you are a disgrace.. IF the girl didn't want to have that image on her, she wouldn't dress slutty or skimpy..It's her own choice to dress like that and knows the consequence for doing so.. She knows she is trying to get a guys attention and when you mix that with a guy who knows he can't get a girl like that and see's her and possibly been drinking.. Well you get that outcome of rape. Why do you think girls dress slutty and skimpy and go clubbing, cause 80% trying to get laid, or go home with a guy..trust me I been clubbing many times over the years..
Originally posted by Skywatcher2011
Originally posted by verschickter
As a man I say: Always aim for his balls in a rape situation. Hit as hard as you can, this is men´s kryptonite. Don´t use it for anything else then self protection. But hit the balls, he won´t be able to do much in the minute afterwards. Chance to escape or chance to disable him to get time to escape.
A man that´s about to rape someone doesn´t deserve less.
I wonder if rapists will ever evolve to wearing a jock strap on their rampages? Just sayin
Originally posted by live2beknown
reply to post by blupblup
wow seriously, you are a disgrace.. IF the girl didn't want to have that image on her, she wouldn't dress slutty or skimpy..It's her own choice to dress like that and knows the consequence for doing so.. She knows she is trying to get a guys attention and when you mix that with a guy who knows he can't get a girl like that and see's her and possibly been drinking.. Well you get that outcome of rape. Why do you think girls dress slutty and skimpy and go clubbing, cause 80% trying to get laid, or go home with a guy..trust me I been clubbing many times over the years..