posted on Aug, 19 2012 @ 11:21 AM
Aspie-like 3D humor moment alert!!!!
My mother recently told me a story about me as a small boy,she described the moment she knew I was vastly different than her other kids,and in a
hugely positive bright way as she always treated all of us,I was six months old and she had given me a digestive cookie to gnaw on one day,after
giveing me a cookie she went to put them away and for some reason she said she felt the need to look back at me as she was putting the cookies
away,she said when she turned i was looking directly at her with my head turned and focused,she said it caught her by surprise so much she did a
double-take and had to ask herself if I was really watching her with as much thought as she suspected,so she took the cookies to another cupboard a
few feet over one in my blind spot and waited to see if i would go to enough trouble to watch her put the cookies away if it meant turning all the way
in the other direction and craneing my beanbag,ha ha ha,well i did just that,and it was then that she said she knew she had a challenge on her hands,a
smarty pants,ha ha ha
Then she made a game with me where she would move the cookies and if I wanted one I had to look at where she had moved it,so i was constantly
adjusting and extrapolating and useing my inuition,she then graduated to moveing it when i wasnt looking and makeing me guess,until i found patterns
in that and caught her,we had a me catch her competition my whole life with it being our secret and me being ultr-respectful,this is homeopathic
treatment for an autistic or aspie kid that might work for some if used in a supportive manner to what they are already doing.
You need to think the unthinkable with these kids,that they can already virtually read your mind nearly from birth,then you need to pull up your
socks and challenge them,my mom said i was the most entertaining kid to raise because of the way i engaged challenges in an unconventional but very
sucessfull manner,by rewriteing rules on the fly and createing supportive structures for my ideas and 3D perspectives by influenceing 2D thinkers,she
was always giveing me hell for takeing advantage of older kids ,I was selling crab-apples door to door at four years old,because i understood that we
needed more money and I had already conceptualised its cause and effect and form and function and at four i devised a way to get some,and I literally
did that,of course no one could believe what I was doing but they didnt stop me they supported me,i was even aware at four why many adults were buying
the apples,the dynamic,but i deemed it ok to fleece them because of the need justified by the fact they were misrepresenting their real feelings to be
through the sale as well,I was well aware the ones who bought wanted to help even more but couldnt so I used this lack of cojones so to speak to judge
them and i contributed to the mutually satisfying but morally corrupt in many ways dynamic,but i WAS aware of the clash of idealsims already at four.
So I definately had a maximus-opportunus type of growing environment because i was allowed to do things on my own that were supposedly undoable or
not in my age class,I had no barriers other than safety and my own creativity and ambition.And I guess poor kids build a lot of collages with glue and
cut-outs and tell a lot of stories and cook a lot of things with mom and read a lot of free books,right??For sure.Poor kids are taught to manifest
very early because their parents want them to have a chance at vreateing[not maintaining like rich kids]sucess in the world and know they are
underdogs,so they teach any and every way they can in a very resourceful way hopeing it will help ease the pain of life.
Had you watched four little kids spending hours together by the night light with their mother cutting puctures out of old magazines and newspapers
with little scissors and their imaginations,creating their very own tailormade Disneyworld you would have been watching an Aspie-child heaven being
created,because for me manifesting creatively was heaven,an Aspie can recieve the tactile reward from a cerebral action,so building the collage to ME
was every bit as tactile as going to disneyland was to normal 2D thinking kids like my siblings.Restricting them from actually doing and experiencing
tactile things would have been detremental to their development as suppressing my creative manifestation on a cerebral level would have been to me,my
mom out of empathy for my unusual intuition and attention knowingly created a perfect environment for me amongst a large brood,for each of us she
created this dynamic,includeing an aspie like me,so this is very doable.
I just think we miss the boat a lot because few of us find our way through the maze of 2D liveing and copeing with enough energy to fight much more
after that,so 90% of the people teaching 3D thinking kids are actually ill-equipped 2D thinkers,its an impossible dynamic to make work and it hurts