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Originally posted by Six6Six Originally posted by Patrol AFTER TWO FAILED MARRIAGES, I HAVE SOLVED THIS PROBLEM. I AM MARRIED TO A FILIPINA GIRL. THEY ARE THE GOD'S GIFT TO MEN. Shame about the looks department though......
You're a misogynistic, bitter loser from the sounds of it. What kind of crypotzoological monstrosities do you pay to get your perverted pleasures from??? To say all one sex/nationality/race/religion/ethnicity/sports teams fans/et. al. means--NECESSARILY--that you ARE a dummy!
The guy in that video is the poster boy for bullied children. He wouldnt know a woman if one came up and tickled his undercarriage. A prize guy right there...any you lot think women are being superficial etc.....NO they are just trying to avoid cabbages like this guy.
Originally posted by AshleyD
Hello everyone. It seems we're in a rather heated gender argument.
Let's please remember our focus. Opinions are fine but personal attacks are not. Let's please keep it civil and respectful.
Originally posted by RealSpoke
The majority of the women that suffer from this are suburban girls. If you want a down to earth dime, try dating women that are from the city.
Originally posted by Six6Six
It just seems to me that this is a thread to bash women for NO reason.
I can bet with almost 100% certainty the men on here complaining are the men who fail in every walk of life and then blame the women for being to stuck up....NOT realizing that these women just have STANDARDS that you lot fall well below.
We have men in here who fail in their marital lives, ship in women from 3rd world dumps who speak next to no english and would marry a chimp just to leave their countries.
Well done you guys, instead of seeking out women that match your low standards in your own country you instead fail and point the finger else where.
In reality you are socially retarded and offer nothing to these women beside a life of mediocrity and living pay check to pay check.....the sum of failure in a nutshell.edit on 15-8-2012 by Six6Six because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Jana12
I authored a book on this topic/disorder. I have experience with these types of people, as this disorder also runs in my own family. I hope the following information is helpful.
It's called 'Narcissism' or NPD, Narcissistic Personality Disorder and it's actually very serious -- not for the person who has the disorder, but for those involved in any way with the person. Unfortunately, it's an untreatable, incurable emotional disorder. But, many people don't believe that until after they've spent a fortune on therapy only to find out the person with NPD was playing them. They get their kicks out of playing head games.
They lack the ability to empathize -- to put themselves in the place of others. That inability never improves or changes. They get high off of being the center of attention and when they aren't the center of attention they are down. They are shallow, very superficial. They also get high off of drama, even if they claim to hate drama. They also specialize in destroying relationships, tearing apart families and fracturing emotional bonds -- and with absolutely no remorse. Sometimes, others don't even realize that these Princesses were actually the source or cause of a break-up or an estrangement b/c they usually cover their tracks.
They lack the ability to accept responsibility for their actions.They will destroy you if you have a relationship with them. They are, essentially, an out-of-control or an unruly adolescent in the body of an adult ... even in their 30's, 40's, 50's and beyond. They also have limited coping abilities.
A specific part of the brain never matured beyond late adolescence.
Some experts believe 'the emotional center' of the brain is underdeveloped and that this particular center or region of the brain did not properly develop along with other brain regions that did develop (children are narcissistic) ... AND then other experts believe the circuitry of 'the emotional center' of the brain is faulty or improperly wired ... AND others believe it's genetic plus an environmental component triggered the disorder.
Anyone who co-parents with an individual who has this mental disorder is doomed to a lifetime of sheer misery. They use innocent children as objects or pawns to make others 'dance to their tune'. They have children with those who are not narcissistic as a means of keeping them tied and connected to them for life. NPD goes way beyond entitlement issues and self-absorption ... way beyond. These people are real bad news. Never confront them or tell them you suspect they have this disorder.
If a teenager with narcissistic tendencies does not outgrow narcissism by their early 20's (mid 20's at the very latest) when the brain's emotional/social development center achieves maturity, then chances are that it's not a phase. It means they have the actual disorder. Reality TV exploits them and gets paid to do so. But, then, they live in fantasy, not reality, as they're so full of themselves they're actually unaware they are being exploited.
It gets progressively worse with age and there is no known cure. My advice -- stay away from these people. They will slowly take you down in every way -- emotionally, financially and ultimately physically, meaning they slowly destroy your health. Sadly, many people take this disorder way too lightly.
Originally posted by Egyptia
reply to post by dominicus
Essentially we live in and have created a civilization where people in general are dysfunctional. There is no 'norm' anymore and both sexes are lost because our 'advanced disassociative technological' society has divided us from each other and even ourselves.
I'm not sure if ever there truly existed a 'norm' because I believe that is an oxymoron when referring to human beings but I do believe we have vastly deteriorated and become degenerate in ways that have isolated us from everything that 'should' matter but no longer does.
Even the compass of ethical and social mores (customs & moral attitudes) are blurred leaving us internally and socially bankrupt.
Originally posted by Brown Bear
Yeah... and just imagine what they'll do to their children when they have them, and their husbands until the divorce.
I often wonder what the current crop of grossly overweight princesses without Class think that produces such haughtiness? If the past few generations demonstrate anything it's that raising children and holding their families together are beyond their ability.
Believe me guys, these girls won't look so good, or so desirable, in a few years with a couple of kids and as many ex-husbands under their ever expanding belt. Go to Walmart to see their future, and yours too unless you follow the advice many father's now give to their sons:
"survive your 20's with a vasectomy and have it repaired in the 30's and save yourself the inevitable grief and years of child support and alimony to a woman you detest (18 years)."
It's their meal ticket and the cross you'll bear. Be careful and take the advice... or regret it.
A witness said the woman was targeting men because of something that had happened to her in the past.