U.S. Women and the Princess syndrome

Do a search for "The 4 Dangers Destroying Men Today". It's one of those self help info programs but you can find it for free if you search hard enough.

Hint; #4 is "Western Women". It basically tells you to avoid long term relationships with women who were raised in America, Canada and the UK for the same reason the OP mentioned... the self-entitled "Princess" syndrome.

reply to post by dominicus


I agree with much of your premise, but your wording also makes you sound like a much spurned, bitter man quite honestly. You make it sound as is all American women are this way. It is ALWAYS dangerous to think in absolutes. I do agree, however, that there exists in America (and probably most developed countries these days) a phenomena akin to what you call "Princess Syndrome." But "ordering" a bride from some dirt poor country because you think she'll respect/love/obey you all the more out of gratitude for rescuing her could be called "Prince Syndrome" in my book. I agree with you, in that I think the ubiquity of reality shows is absolutely related to the upswing in this phenomena. I too think my sister has acquired some of the annoying, nasty, lazy, entitled traits of some of her favorite reality tv show stars. It might be more prevalent in women than men (I tend to think it is honestly) but it definitely has affected both sexes--very negatively. I hate reality tv because I think it has shown to clearly degrade our culture(s). Of course there are other factors. And of course hypocritical me watches these shows I proclaim to hate too (hey most of my family is women, they love that crap and sometimes I have no choice, now if you excuse me I think Honey Boo Boo Child is on now, thank you very much!:cool

Star for opening thread.

It's all the way the Western Industrial Societies raise their children as well as the hollywood influence.

It's now cool to be mean, cruel, selfish and self-centered.

Our reality shows suck big time, can't stand to even watch them.

We have gotten so far away from what commitment, loyalty and honor means it's not even funny.

Now I'm a 59 year old woman, aging okay but no longer look like I did when I was young - yet honestly I have had about four, five young, cute, successful men tell me that if I ever get widowed or divorced, to give them a chance

They say, "They don't make them like you anymore."

No, hopefully I go before my sweetie pie................without him, I would be half a person, half dead - no longer interested in any other male/female relationship.

Why in sam heck would any young man want a old bag like me???? (I'm not rich, or even well off now and only average looking at best when I fix myself up).

Answer, according to these younger men, "You're not spoiled." "You're loyal, G_ _ you talk about your husband like he's a knight in shining armor" (He is, my prince, my knight in shining armor). "You're so loyal, so willing to work along side of him, help him not sit around and be served." "You're honest, really honest and decent.".

People by and large our youth are now mucking around like animals do. They don't court, they don't seek the person's inner qualities. Someone with "virtues" is laughed at while the mean, cheerleader is hailed as "cute".

People only see with their eyes.

We're raising our daughters and sons wrong.

Here in America, and I can only speak for the Midwest, USA - usually both parents work, kids are left alone in front of the TV to be indoctrinated by hollywood, which is a sorry sorry sad influence.

Watch Dakota Fanning, Kristen Stewart, even Emma Watson - they started out as really sweet, cute little innocent girls and what did fame, fortune and the big screen do to them?

They're like everyday whores.

Almost 50% of all marriages end up in divorce here in America and 80% of the time the woman gets the child(ren) so the child(ren) miss out on a two parent, full family. They are exposed to a parent that has multilple partners in a short space of time, (not able to commit to a long term relationship).

Our children are raised to have their own bedroom with their own private bath (many not all), designer clothes, any and all "material stuff" they want at a whim.

High school parking lots are now packed with young 16 year old kids having their own car.

No supervision - everything handed to them on a silver platter.

Sex at a earlier age without being instructed that it's best to form a emotional attachment and get to know the other person first - no sex is now a casual entertainment, like having ice cream or playing pool.

In short, we no longer have morals, God or decency in our lives.

Empires go through three stages:

Formation/Conquest: Here is where people struggle to pull it all together.

High point

Decay

It is my own opinion we are in the latter...................all the signs are there.



This guy in the video says it all.

Published on Jun 26, 2012 by j17productions www.facebook.com... www.joeybroyles.com... PRINCESS! PRINCESS! PRINCESS! There are many people in the world who believe that they are a princess, but they are not. You can't parade about the world telling people that you are a princess and expect people to treat you like a princess. A true princess does not need to tell anyone who she is and furthermore most of you are delusional at best. Treat people with respect and they will in turn treat you with respect.

I've had so many young men lately ask me, "what the hell is going on with the younger women of today?" and no I'm not talking about allowing any type of abuse either physically or mentally.

My husband treats me like Queen Cleopatra literally - BUT, No we couldn't afford a big fancy wedding (rained so we got married in our one bedroom apartment instead of the park we rented).

I've worked for 36 of our 38 years together (would still be working if my job of 16 years at 57 years of age had not been outsourced to India).

Even when we had our three sons, I watched other people's children to bring in extra money.

Have always carried my full share.

And I'm not a easy person to live with (menopause is a twitch)

But, I'm loyal, honest, hard working and not a princess nor expect to be treated like one.



I have watched a couple episodes of Bridezillas and all I can say to you young men out there is if you are stupid enough to marry these type of girls - selfish, self centered, psychopathic narcissist beauties, well you get exactly what you deserve.

I will give you one example of raising a spoiled princess:

At a family gathering my one sister in law and I were having a conversation.

Her five year old daughter rushes up and interrupts us, like I didn't even exist.

Now, growing up in the 50's and 60's children were taught "manners", when two people, particularly adults are talking it is rude to interrupt them.

What did my sister in law do? (There was no emergency, it was a non-important issue).

My sister in law L turned away from our conversation and devoted her whole attention to her daughter's silly conversation.

I simply walked away.

Many people (not all) no longer are raising their children (both male and female) with manners or teaching them to COMPROMISE.

You don't teach your children how to compromise, be respectful and polite and only think of themself and you end up with a little princess/prince.

And that's exactly the way Corporations want it.........................casual sex, the disintegration of the family unit and nobody committing to anyone other than "the companies" and "the government".

Many children are now taught the world revolves around them, no manners are taught and rudeness and no being able to compromise and stick with someone even through hard times..............what about "In sickness and in health, until death do us part????"

Many women now want the big wedding (Princess for a day) experience without the real price tag of commitment.

Many women want the baby experience without the male being a part of that baby's life..............and that male and his parents are a part of that child's heritage.

Word of warning to you young men - again marry a princess and you will be a slave not a prince.

AFTER TWO FAILED MARRIAGES, I HAVE SOLVED THIS PROBLEM.
I AM MARRIED TO A FILIPINA GIRL.
THEY ARE THE GOD'S GIFT TO MEN.

reply to post by Patrol


My oldest son says marry a woman from a poorer country where they are not given everything they want turns out stronger, nicer more appreciative and less spoiled partners.

Good for you..............and Asian women are (I think) way more beautiful than blond barbies.

Best of luck.

reply to post by Threadfall

I agree with much of your premise, but your wording also makes you sound like a much spurned, bitter man quite honestly.

wrong. Another assumption, and assumptions get people in trouble. (as a matter of fact I'm going to make a whole separate thread that speaks about assumptions)

Here's my first line:

I just wanted to bring to attention that I have been noticing an increase of the egotistical "Princess Syndrome" in American Women.

see that, its an observation. i did not say "every single woman in america suffers from princess syndrome." So right off the bad your assumption has u jaded.

It is ALWAYS dangerous to think in absolutes.

thats why i never do. again an assumption. I've met 2 awesome woman in the last 3 months, both are married.

But "ordering" a bride from some dirt poor country because you think she'll respect/love/obey you all the more out of gratitude for rescuing her could be called "Prince Syndrome" in my book.

another assumption. my family and my origins are from a place where mail order brides are perfectly normal. its just another name for "international online dating." It doesnt mean u purchase a piece of meat to do as you wish with. It means you pay for a service that gives you access to women who may or may not be genuinely wanting a long term relationship leading up to marriage and kids. Its up to you to discern whether or not they just want a green card and half your dough.

ALl my gf's I ever had I have respected and treated well. I wouldn't change that if I ended up dating a marrying a mail order bride. They are human too and would get the same treatment from me as any regular US girl, and I have had very few complaints, though im not perfect and a work in progress just like the next guy

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I really have hardly run into any of this in my life, and I've met thousands of women.the ones who do suffer from "princess syndrome" are usually miserable, single, and working a crappy job by age 30. Certain small-minded young boys or very insecure men will put up with that type of behavior but not most. After awhile, they'll usually either grow out of it, or become alcoholics.

I'm curious as to wahat your demographic is that you would have such a high preponderance of it in your life. Maybe its a certain age group, geography, lifestyle, income range, etc.

I live in a large metropolitan area, and princess syndrome is practically non-existent in my world...let's keep it that way!

This is just a product of evolution. Women want to make sure a man has enough resources to take care of her through impregnation and birth before having sex. Of course these days sex doesn't = getting pregnant, but they still treat it that way. Of course there are evolved women who have enough self-respect to not want men to take care of them financially. But they do not yet outnumber the less evolved ones.

reply to post by ofhumandescent

I've had so many young men lately ask me, "what the hell is going on with the younger women of today?" and no I'm not talking about allowing any type of abuse either physically or mentally

exactly the reason why I posted this. I'm shocked how much of this is out there. Judging by the amount of Stars and Flags I got for posting this, it's not just me who has noticed this.

I've worked for 36 of our 38 years together (would still be working if my job of 16 years at 57 years of age had not been outsourced to India). Even when we had our three sons, I watched other people's children to bring in extra money. Have always carried my full share. And I'm not a easy person to live with (menopause is a twitch) But, I'm loyal, honest, hard working and not a princess nor expect to be treated like one.

If you were to clone yourself, then you would be exactly what I would be looking for. I found 2 others like yourself recently, but their both married. Still I've remained good friends with these 2 and its amazing how much your life is improved when you have genuine friendship with genuine people.

Star for you!!!! Your reply is exactly what I'm talking about

reply to post by dominicus


Although I do agree with you very much that American women are nothing but shallow, self important useless wastes of space (except the girls in porn as they are earning every penny) I would say that it stems from america as a whole believing they are somewhat better than everyone else. Americans feed their egos a false sense of patriotic BS.

You people are awarded medals and certificates from preschool for crappy achievements with everyone's parents over their praising their kids for the simplest of things.

But, you the OP thinking of ordering a mail order bride need to grow up and look at how come you are in that position. I dont believe you have the social or skillsets to attract a normal attractive and down-to-earth woman and that is why you are crying on here. Instead of sniffing the hair of my little ponies in the basement of you home try broadening your social circle and expanding it from 1 friend to half a dozen. IT might help.

NOT being able to find and keep hold of a socially decent woman is YOUR fault not that of the diseased culture that is american women.

It seems like every woman I've met meets the OP's criteria and only a handful of women I've known were actually decent and respectable. Even the ones that looks clean on the outside end up dirty when you have a peek inside.

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But, you the OP thinking of ordering a mail order bride need to grow up and look at how come you are in that position.

Another one who belongs to the club of "let's make false assumptions about everything" club. I'm sure your own wife or gf is more than happy she has a brilliant genius as yourself in her life. ***!!SARCASM**!!!

I bet you also assume your awesome in the sack, that your country is the greatest, that you can take on anyone, and you have biggest reproductive organ your side of the pond. Funny thing is, you've imagined all this to be so, when in reality its not.

I dont believe you have the social or skillsets to attract a normal attractive and down-to-earth woman and that is why you are crying on here.

been doin it all my life, have had down to earth in the past, but I hadn't found myself yet (save that for another thread) You sound like your skillsket is one of those muscle jacked steroid injecting affliction t-shirt weraing not too bright assumers. It's really a sad sight seeing your projections on here, when all I did was post an observation about something.

Instead of sniffing the hair of my little ponies in the basement of you home try broadening your social circle and expanding it from 1 friend to half a dozen. IT might help.

Instead of making assumptions about others on the internet, which are not based on real life observations, why dont you go and take care of ur gf/wife or find out where she is. She may be on her way to my house so I can offer her what you assumed you were.

NOT being able to find and keep hold of a socially decent woman is YOUR fault not that of the diseased culture that is american women.

I bet you eat Cookie Assumption Crisp cereal for breakfast and kiss your wife off as she goes to, what you assume is work, when really its my place.

u ever hear the saying save the best for last?

Originally posted by Patrol
AFTER TWO FAILED MARRIAGES, I HAVE SOLVED THIS PROBLEM.
I AM MARRIED TO A FILIPINA GIRL.
THEY ARE THE GOD'S GIFT TO MEN.

Shame about the looks department though......

Originally posted by dominicus
reply to post by Six6Six

 

But, you the OP thinking of ordering a mail order bride need to grow up and look at how come you are in that position.

Another one who belongs to the club of "let's make false assumptions about everything" club. I'm sure your own wife or gf is more than happy she has a brilliant genius as yourself in her life. ***!!SARCASM**!!!

I bet you also assume your awesome in the sack, that your country is the greatest, that you can take on anyone, and you have biggest reproductive organ your side of the pond. Funny thing is, you've imagined all this to be so, when in reality its not.

I dont believe you have the social or skillsets to attract a normal attractive and down-to-earth woman and that is why you are crying on here.

been doin it all my life, have had down to earth in the past, but I hadn't found myself yet (save that for another thread) You sound like your skillsket is one of those muscle jacked steroid injecting affliction t-shirt weraing not too bright assumers. It's really a sad sight seeing your projections on here, when all I did was post an observation about something.

Instead of sniffing the hair of my little ponies in the basement of you home try broadening your social circle and expanding it from 1 friend to half a dozen. IT might help.

Instead of making assumptions about others on the internet, which are not based on real life observations, why dont you go and take care of ur gf/wife or find out where she is. She may be on her way to my house so I can offer her what you assumed you were.

NOT being able to find and keep hold of a socially decent woman is YOUR fault not that of the diseased culture that is american women.

I bet you eat Cookie Assumption Crisp cereal for breakfast and kiss your wife off as she goes to, what you assume is work, when really its my place.

u ever hear the saying save the best for last?

Hahaha...your whole rant at me boils down to ME assuming......well you are the one who want to order a woman by post. Well. you have obviously done really well with your life to have it come to that. Well Done.

Stick to "finding yourself", no wonder you have no one....more of a woman than an actual woman.....hahahaha.

What amazes me is that you decry a whole sex because you're to incompetent to live up to the standards of a decent woman. Infant!

Instead of ranting about how you cant find a women who is willing to live on your Mcdonalds paycheck and that most women may like a present for their birthday that costs more than a free coupon for get one legs waxed get the other leg free, start getting a grip of your life and sort it out.

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LOL you think this applies to just US women !?!

Australian women, as specially the 18 - 25 yo range, and doubly as specially the ones who finish university and go right into advanced careers, without ever having to work at the bottom. And even more so the ones who are given high profile positions in federal/State government agencies right out of school..lol

They tend to be very sure that they are invincible and can do as they please to anyone they please, with no consiquences.

Met quite a few like that. Bullies because they actually think they have a licence to bully, because they are special, a cut above the rest, genetically superior, more important than everyone else and always right, no matter what..

Been the victim of just such a bully (20 - 25yo female), over a period of 4 years, through 4 different jobs (all connected to the same industry), in four different parts of the state, a number of job applications sabotaged, bankruptcy, mobbing, gossip, a whole bunch of stuff. All because a princess with a grudge and a high profile position can do as she pleases.

Trust meI know all about the Princess syndrome...lol

Originally posted by Six6Six

Originally posted by Patrol
AFTER TWO FAILED MARRIAGES, I HAVE SOLVED THIS PROBLEM.
I AM MARRIED TO A FILIPINA GIRL.
THEY ARE THE GOD'S GIFT TO MEN.

Shame about the looks department though......

You're a misogynistic, bitter loser from the sounds of it. What kind of crypotzoological monstrosities do you pay to get your perverted pleasures from??? To say all one sex/nationality/race/religion/ethnicity/sports teams fans/et. al. is one thing and ONE thing only means--NECESSARILY--that you ARE a dummy!

Originally posted by dominicus
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Well, I didn't have to ship my wife into the country. There are plenty of women in our countries for everyone, yet some desperate nobodies feel the need to ship one of these poor women who will do anything to get out of their country and marry a white man.....but little do they know that the men that do this are lesser value than the wives they ship in.

It just seems to me that this is a thread to bash women for NO reason.

I can bet with almost 100% certainty the men on here complaining are the men who fail in every walk of life and then blame the women for being to stuck up....NOT realizing that these women just have STANDARDS that you lot fall well below.

We have men in here who fail in their marital lives, ship in women from 3rd world dumps who speak next to no english and would marry a chimp just to leave their countries.

Well done you guys, instead of seeking out women that match your low standards in your own country you instead fail and point the finger else where.

In reality you are socially retarded and offer nothing to these women beside a life of mediocrity and living pay check to pay check.....the sum of failure in a nutshell.

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Well, I didn't have to ship my wife into the country. There are plenty of women in our countries for everyone, yet some desperate nobodies feel the need to ship one of these poor women who will do anything to get out of their country and marry a white man.....but little do they know that the men that do this are lesser value than the wives they ship in.

quit yappin and post a mug shot of that brilliant facade you call your face. well all get see how you fair, as im sure the ingenuity of your comments out to match the incredulous looks

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