reply to post by MbretM
Sounds like an infatuation or a crush, it will go away. Its just something that happens. Infatuations and crushes are not love, and constantly
thinking about a person may be something, but if its not returned it is a one way street to a dead end.
What causes this spontaneous infatuation? Are we on the same "energy" level?
You don't want to know.
But if your curious then just ask her whats up. And then you will have your answer one way or another, but the whole thing is heavily based on
social structures and pressures, and a female at the age of 23 or over, is likely not thinking of dudes who are 17.
And unlike people say it's not a maturity things its basically pure survival instincts and truncation's. That whole thing is another confusion,
but lets just say females in general have more options, and once puberty hits things come to them giving them a sort of power, the power to have many
dudes do anything to get to know them.
Really that is all it is and its confused for maturity when its just basic instincts, nothing to do with maturity or anything really, its pure
biology. And in fact the whole maturity thing is kind of flipped upside down to, that is the more complex organism matures slower, and the less
complex organism matures faster, so those who mature first are usually the less complex. Basically takes less time to cook up that ingredient.
One thing though for males there is a bit of shift switch in this system and paradigm, ie. If she makes your stomach tie up in knots, the whole
butterflies thing. that is not love or whatnot, that is your body physically warning you to stay away there is danger ahead. A warning. Many have
not headed that warning and many have paid for it in time. For females it would be different, but trust me, the whole aura is stay away, not we are
soul mates and all that.
Everytime this happens it is pure torture because i cant get the person off my mind.
You answered your own question, its torture. And if its a continuous torture were nothing comes out of it its just not meant to be. Or it could be
that your just deceiving yourself, your way to young to really know what you want anyways. I would not go and get yourself all mixed up in things if
you do not know what you are about. But like I said, ask and you shall receive an answer. And that's all it is.