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Do we continue to exist after death?
We believe these people to be dead.. but are they really?
After all, it's only the physical body that is missing.. does not mean these people have ceased to exist..
Originally posted by thesmokingman
Do we continue to exist after death?
I wouldnt know, I have never died. However I would be inclined to say.....no, we do not. Nice coincidence story though. S&F.
reply to post by Extralien
I suggest that you may all rest your minds with the full knowledge that you are being watched over with good intent. Your observations and gut instincts have brought you to this point for a reason.. coincidence or what?
reply to post by Lookstwice
Was the fish sign maybe in relation to you needing to be more careful with your diet? Maybe it was some practical advice to tell you to eat more healthy fish and take fish oil to lower your cholesterol. I don't see why she couldn't be trying to help out with day to day things, rather than just letting loved ones know she is still around.
reply to post by schuyler
But you seem kind of obsessed with this death. You are still visiting the graveyard three years later and asking for sign after sign after sign. Well, you keep getting them so your sister-in-law is very accommodating, but the real question is: Can you let her go? And another question to ponder is: Are you preventing her from moving on? In other words, is your neediness for signs compelling her to hang around close enough to give them to you?
Originally posted by WeRpeons
reply to post by schuyler
But you seem kind of obsessed with this death. You are still visiting the graveyard three years later and asking for sign after sign after sign. Well, you keep getting them so your sister-in-law is very accommodating, but the real question is: Can you let her go? And another question to ponder is: Are you preventing her from moving on? In other words, is your neediness for signs compelling her to hang around close enough to give them to you?
No not at all. I may think about her maybe once a day, but it's her immediate family members who are really having a hard time of letting go. I've never asked for her to give me a sign. These things would just happen, and most of the time I think they were directed towards my wife and her daughter.
If thinking about her a lot is preventing her from moving on, I really hope not. She died a heart breaking death the last 5 months of her life. She had a family member at her side everyday for those last agonizing 5 months. We have moved on with our lives, but I know my wife, her daughter and parents think about her a lot.