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Originally posted by James1982
Two choices here.
"Let" your man watch porn. Or give him sex whenever, where ever, and in whatever way he wants it.
To do otherwise is completely unfair and nothing but a power-grab in the relationship by an unstable woman with low self esteem.
If I want sexual gratification that's my right, I'll get it one way or another. Nobody has any say in me doing so. Obviously I won't force myself on a woman, but if my girlfriend (never had a wife.. yet) doesn't want to have sex at a given time, and I do, I'll watch porn and take care of it myself.
The idea of "No, I won't have sex with you right now, AND I forbid you to watch porn to take care of your needs" is selfish and quite frankly disturbing. The woman wants to control when the man is sexually gratified, she doesn't want him doing it by himself. I know of some stories where women won't "let" their men masturbate at all, regardless of whether or not porn is being viewed.
So like I said, she should either give him sex whenever he wants, or not make a fuss about him watching porn. I can't imagine any logical argument against this simple idea.edit on 25-7-2012 by James1982 because: (no reason given)
And not denying that men are visual people. I just dont' understand why someone would date/marry someone who doesn't satisfy them visually 100%. Why do they need *more*? Looking is fine, but I just feel uncomfortable with the idea of my husband, who claims I fulfil him 100%, would need to be visually stimulated by other women. Perhaps somebody can clarify this for me.....? (legitimately...not being snotty or anything lol)
So like I said, she should either give him sex whenever he wants, or not make a fuss about him watching porn. I can't imagine any logical argument against this simple idea.
Originally posted by yourmaker
I wonder if she was almost offended that he would seek sexual stimulation from anyone or anything but her?
or maybe she found it extremely degrading?
Yes I look porn, but because I don't have a girlfriend, if I did I probably wouldn't be that interested.
And not all the time, here and there.
but I think porn can be healthy in some ways, you don't want to be screwing your girlfriend everytime you "get the urge", she would think that's all your interested in.. unless she's hypersexual as well, then yipee.