Originally posted by yourmaker
I wonder if she was almost offended that he would seek sexual stimulation from anyone or anything but her?
or maybe she found it extremely degrading?
Yes I look porn, but because I don't have a girlfriend, if I did I probably wouldn't be that interested.
And not all the time, here and there.
but I think porn can be healthy in some ways, you don't want to be screwing your girlfriend everytime you "get the urge", she would think that's all
your interested in.. unless she's hypersexual as well, then yipee.
I've been married 3 or 4 times - depends on what you count as a "marriage", I reckon. The first wife was one of those "yippee!" types. Porn was never
an issue because 1) she never left me with enough free time on my hands to consider it, and 2) there was no porn in existence that could beat her, any
how. I'd probably still be with her if she could have figured out just who was the pilot and who was the navigator.
The second and third talked a good game, until they thought they had me pinned down, and then it all came to a grinding, screaming, screeching halt.
Did a lot of bar hopping during the first of those, and porn surfing during the second, just to remind myself that sort of thing still happened,
somewhere. She got pretty bent out of shape about it, but hell, "degrading" was in the eye of the beholder. I thought it pretty damned degrading to be
relegated to the couch, myself, for no discernible reason... and, well, the internet was right THERE. As far as I was concerned, she had no business
bitching about whatever I did, if she wasn't willing to provide a viable alternative.
I never saw porn as a substitute - face it, pictures are a pretty pale imitation - and however she saw it was her own damned problem. I'm glad she
never hit me with the old "am I not enough?" or "what have they got that I don't?", because I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have liked the answers to
Nowadays, I'm back to the old standby of "what's the point again?" concerning porn. Can't figure out a good use for it any more.
edit on 2012/8/23 by nenothtu because: (no reason given)