posted on Jul, 25 2012 @ 07:22 AM
Everybody is insane, including you!
Know why? You could be free and clear of this madness is ONE MONTHS time. You refuse to free yourself from it, that's insanity. I can't count how
many of these posts from you I've read where you complain about your sister and her kid and whatever else. I'm honestly not trying to be rude, but
you are bringing this on yourself, and REFUSING to fix the issue.
You've said you lived a quiet life before they moved in. I've also read posts where you said you refuse to kick them out. Well? Then quit
complaining about it!
Accept the fact you are going to be stressed and miserable for the rest of your life, or do something about it. Those are your two choices, your only
two choices. To get rid of someone who has established residence in your house you must go through the eviction process. In most places it usually
takes one month. Say "I've had enough, I've tried to help, you two are making my life miserable. You have one month to leave" and then file
That's your choice. You have no responsibility to others to this extreme. Lending a helping hand to those in need, and sacrificing your own personal
mental and physical health to support people who don't even appreciate it are two entirely different things. So grow a pair and kick them out.
You'll have peace and quiet in 30 days time.
I honestly think you are addicted to the drama your family brings. Just like parents of drug abusing troubled youth will get addicted to the
adrenaline and excitement the issues with their child brings. Usually when getting help for the kids the parents also go through therapy to break
their addiction to all the drama. I think that's your problem, you are addicted to the drama so you refuse to fix the problem.
So think about the question you asked in the title of this thread, and how it applies to you. A sane person would not subject themselves to this type
of thing on a continual basis if there was any chance of relief. In your case, not only is there a chance of relief, there is a quick, easy, cheap,
guaranteed fix to your problem. Yet time and again, you reuse to take it. Answer me, is that sane?