In ATS search, you will get many good threads about the 'human' condition of psychopathy/sociopathy/narcissism. I came across some fascinating
items elsewhere on the 'net today, and would like to make yet another thread about such, because they dredged up in my own grey (matter) area, my
dark night of the soul with the (seemingly soulless) ones. So many new people come here daily lately, so I hope very much, to be a stop (or slow)
sign warning to a prospective target who then becomes a wise (target).
So, I was reading in this author's link, samvak.tripod.com...
and took keen notice of this;
Moreover, many narcissists
tend to frustrate women. They refrain from having sex with them, tease
them and then leave them, resist flirtatious and seductive behaviours, and so on. Often, they invoke the existence of a girlfriend/fiancée/spouse as
the "reason" why they cannot have sex or develop a relationship.
But wait for it,....
But this is not out of loyalty and fidelity in the
empathic and loving sense. This is because they wish (and often succeed) to sadistically frustrate the interested party.
I have had a few experinces where the guy did cues, such as the light hand touching, the closest personal-space proximity, and one asked me out to
dinner. (While 'unavailable',) Then would then do the old "I'll call you" but then do stalking, like, via the telephone. One was a youngish
male social worker who, at a time when I was at risk, come over to my apartment at night and sit close to 'help' me, but also put it on me that
it's inappropriate. Years back, for decades, and when I was completely ignorant of these pathologies, and when I was desperate and in denial about
my own disabilities while (mostly un consciously) throwing myself wholly, at prospective "rescuers", is when I had these experiences.
Conscienceless ones hate their mothers. Well of course, not in all instances (I think!) but at least three of them I personally knew, -never- -ever-
mentioned their mothers, much less their upbringings. No indications of a mother, such as photos. Nada. I have a brother who is (a psychopath or
sociopath) and while all five of the rest of us siblings love (and forgave) our flawed ignorant mother, this One, haaaaaates her with a rabidity. At
one time, her life was at risk from him, then we got her away from that.
Most male narcissists are misogynists. After all, they are the warped
creations of women. Women gave birth to them and moulded them into what they are: dysfunctional, maladaptive, and emotionally dead. They are angry at
their mothers and, by extension at all women.
I found this interesting YouTube vid, where the guy says ( -- at 07:34 -- ) "because -reputation- to them, is EVERYTHING."
I myself had been at the recieving end of sheer -wrath- from one, who needed for me to shut up while I was inconsolably distrought, (upon his
disclosing an upsetting fact) lest....someone can hear, and wonder about him and his good reputation. See, their image to the world, is crucial, like
my domecile is, for me, (versus being homeless.) And of course, not one iota of concern to be had. They don't have it to give.
Beware those who have contempt for 'lesser' people. They disdain ones who are unable to accomplish the same.
They refuse to acknowledge the sometimes vast differences in natural energy levels people are born with, plus chronic adversity versus having only
Narcissists equate love with weakness. They hate being weak and they hate and despise weak people (and, therefore, the sick, the old and the
young). They do not tolerate what they consider to be stupidity, disease and dependence – and love seems to consist of all three.
especially interesting to me, their intolerence to what they consider stupidity. I consider the word "stupid" exceptionally abusive, and my own
personal line drawn in the sand, the "deal breaker" is if someone calls me "stupid". It is a vicious dart. I had found that 'people' with
superiority complexes, like the word stupid, they liked using it toward others. Sticks and stones may break your bones, and words will break your