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Originally posted by benrl
There is a natural remedy.
We are not allowed to discuss it.
Everyone here knows what it is.
Even as high as 51% of americans think its okay.
Don't know if it would help, but pretty sure it might.
We (me and her) talked about that today. I asked if he had spankings and she said yes. But her spankings mean a smack on the butt. He's spoiled and he admitted that to her. Further, I agree 100%
Originally posted by benrl
reply to post by FlySolo
We (me and her) talked about that today. I asked if he had spankings and she said yes. But her spankings mean a smack on the butt. He's spoiled and he admitted that to her. Further, I agree 100%
yea, thats not whats wrong with kids, parents either Medicating the crap out of them, or beating them to fix things.
People, Their failure as a child, is your failure as a parent.
Originally posted by mee30
reply to post by FlySolo
No No No, you really think a good beating is the answer here? Holy sh!t man! Do you realize that spanking is hitting? If you do something wrong is it okay for you to be hit? This tells me even more why he is messed up!
So he's been lied to and had things hidden from him, he's learned his whole life is a lie and when he has played up due to that he has been hit! What a fantastic upbringing! And you think he needs more of the same?
Yeah give him a good beating, that will solve everything!
Tell you what, best advice? Just stay away from him please...
Originally posted by seentoomuch
My sister is currently going through a similar situation with her 19 year old son. Good one minute, off the rails the next..... It all comes down to making sure he is on the right meds and takes them correctly. I hope the court is keeping track of his medical care insisting on blood tests to check drug levels and also for illegal drugs. Also, do NOT buy him a car, its a weapon if he is in a bad time.
Just be firm that his medical care is priority, once he is 18 the parents do not have much say if they need to check him in for evaluations, get the most help you can for him now. The Betty Ford Center can do a full evaluation and treatment for cases such as his (they are not just for druggies anymore).
Good luck,
STMedit on 7/20/2012 by seentoomuch because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by FlySolo
reply to post by mee30
He's 17. It's too late for that type of discipline. And who said I want to give him a beating? Stay away from this thread please. Thanks.
Originally posted by davesmart
Originally posted by FlySolo
reply to post by mee30
He's 17. It's too late for that type of discipline. And who said I want to give him a beating? Stay away from this thread please. Thanks.
ok
il go aswell op
but believe me he is going to milk it alll
just like the immis here in my country