I don't know your beliefs, but regardless of what they are, I have learned a hard lesson in life. At least in mine.
Never say those words. The ones in your post. I don't speak them, I refuse to think them, and even reading them almost feels like a curse.
Every time I have, I got my answer.
The answer is yes.
It's almost like... opening a door... or something. Hard to explain.
But, when you say those words, and I have seen it with other people, it is like an invitation to trouble or something. It never fails that almost
instantly, something will happen to answer your question. And it is always doubly compounding your trouble. You may have to learn this lesson the hard
way, I know I did.
I would ask those same words, over, and over as my life almost seemed to spiral out of control to the depths that alnost seemed unrecoverable. I
stopped asking. One day, I realized the pattern. I talked to my husband, and he did too. We agreed then and there to never ask those words again.
I know it may sound odd, but really, it's true.
Of course bad things still happen, but not on the magnitude they were. Nowhere even close! Call it superstitous, call it Murphy's Law, call it what
you will, I just so firmly believe in it I felt compelled to share my warning with you.
I am terribly sorry about your Bunny.
I do hope things get better.