It is elusive. Keep at it. I have had some success too.
Don't let anyone discourage you from trying. I had a post where many people were cruel and petty.
I also had many supportive people encourage me to keep trying.
Make a video so we can listen to it. It is the easiest way to share what you experienced.
And don't let any of the ATS Trolls discourage you. I have learned that many of the good people here don't comment any more because of them. But
they are here.