Originally posted by SibylofErythrae
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What does that even mean?
I've been accused of this very thing, and yet in most ways I am more traditionally female than most. Most often when I hear this the thing guys are
complaining about is that women...THINK. And worse, SPEAK OUT about it.
There seems to be a current of emotion coming from people that they believe something has been taken from them. What is it that you think has been
taken away from you?
Its not that, really.
It's slightly deeper. It's the fact that a man can no longer feel like a man, in front of some, many women today. Ive seen women litteraly strip
their husbands of dignety, simply because their husbands loved them and the women took advantage of it.
I see people saying Women this and Men this all the time. According to steriotypes:
Men - Will cheat on you, Never loyal, careless and heartless.
Women - Never heard, only demanded. Pent up emotions because no one cares or will listen. Men dont listen to women.
I dunno... I see these roles changed quite a bit today.
Example: (a true one though)
My X cheated twice. I turned into a wuss durring our seperation/divorce because I cared, she didnt. Everything I did in life was to make sure she
had everything she wanted. When it wasnt enough, someones elses yard was apparently much greener. I loved that woman more than life itself, only to
have her walk all over me. Everything I believed, everything she said in the beginning, she tells me now were all lies, none of it were true.
Everything she ever propped me up on, she pulled out from under me. In the end, when I signed my name on that damned paper, My heart was destroyed,
life torn, all that I had made, built for her, for me, for us, meant less than dirt. All of my belongings, every shiny piece felt like poison to me,
to my flesh, because all I loved was her. She looked me cold in the eyes and said that "You should have figured it out a long time ago". How?
Untill it happen, there were no clues.. Just a constant bitching wife that didnt do anything but spend hours on end playing games, whiel I worked my
ass off, only to come home and see what was for dinner... Mc Donalds, which I picked up after I got home, or we ate out because someone didnt care
that i worked 12-16 hour days to make me a damn meal.
Did I ever ask her once to make me a sandwich? No... It was, baby, lets go eat, what are you hungry for tonight... Resturant of your choice.
Even though I worked hard, I mean really hard, in the heat all day, I come home, only to take a shower if I have time, to ask my wife were we are
eating since she was soooooo busy all day to do a damn thing.
That's from a friend...
I say this because I hear so many stories about women saying why they left their hubbies. Biggest reason...
Like women tell guys... Keep it in your pants... It seems that the same now falls for women as much if not more.
Is there a reason he's jealous? I bet there is. These self proclaimed "Social Butterfly's".
Everyone has a reason, a get out of jail excuse. My X had one for every problem. Everything is justified even before it's done, with a women. How
is that any diffrent when comparing to a man?
When man and woman are together, does one work more towards choices, one more towards flowers, one more towards paint colors, and so forth? Then why
cant a man do what he's done the last 10k years and women do what they've done the last 10k years? Why the sudden change?
All this does is cause gender confusion. Men dont know what me are supposed to do anymore.
My grandmother told me, one day I would get big, goto work, work hard, make money, get married, raise a family and love them deeply. I was led to
believe that I would be the breadwinner. I was led to believe I would be the protector. I was led to believe that I was the strength of my
When I got married, (this time me personaly), I found that my wife rejected all of that when I got married. She was super opinionated and when mine
did not match hers, she was right or there was hell to pay. She stomped around like a bull when she was mad, at first I smiled... I mean litteraly
stomp around and beat things around.
After a while, it got old I loved this woman with every last drop, in the end, our 15 years were no longer important to her. In one single day, like
my friend, all had changed and the person i thought I knew for 15 years, was a total stranger to me. Everything changed. Pearcings, more drinking,
more ways many people would consider VERY childish. I mean, every single thing her daughters did, she did right behind them, good, bad, moral or