posted on Jul, 11 2012 @ 03:57 PM
I don't have a answer but some insight. Because you are a father and obviously close with your family I think this situation bothers you more to the
core. That's normal.
However, I also think your gut instinct is telling you something more. Your feeling like there must have been a reason why. Sometimes things beyond
will reach out to those who will listen. I would eventually go over and talk to his dad and ask some questions (after you feel it out first). Tell him
that your heart goes out to him as a family man yourself. Maybe there is something he can tell you about the situation that will shed more light on
this tragic event.
When we have something that bothers us so much, it's for a reason!
Maybe the kid wants you to know something. I say that because I knew a girl who died in a car wreck when she was 17 turning 18 that night (we think it
was a accident but it is not certain). She kept a secret that no one knew about not even me. After her death, I kept dreaming about her. She would
tell me about something that happened to her, she wanted an answer, she insisted that I go ask him, she had sex with her step-brother who was a year
or 2 older. I woke up and thought wow that is one crazy dream (or so I thought). Later she would appear in my dreams and say "go ask him" and
A week later I was at her house in her room (which I found out that she shared with her step brother) helping clean up and I heard her aunt say that
she wishes she knew about the secret Lynn was hiding. I looked up and said "what did you say", she replied "Lynn had a secret that she told no one,
only that something happened to her". I literally got chills. I asked for details and she only said that Lynn told her it was something really bad,
but nothing more.
Under her bed I found a notebook, I started reading it while her aunt went to cook dinner. I came across her secret. Without many details she told
about something hurtful and shameful that happened to her when she was 15, she didn't mean for it to happen but he sort of took it from her when they
were caught up in a moment.
Fast forward a month: To make a long story short, I went to a party one night and her step brother was there. After a few drinks I went over to him
and said, I know what happened, I know about the secret. I explained it to him and at first he said "I have no idea what your talking about", but I
insisted. He broke down in tears and told me the truth, he said he never wanted that to happen and it only happened once. They shared a room and one
night she got into his bed and they were just kissing. That turned into something more. She had fell in love with him but he didn't have the same
feelings because it thought the whole thing was wrong. I'm not blaming anyone because I wasn't there. But I think she wanted to know why and if he
loved her. He did tell me that he loved her very much and how this secret was killing him. After that the dreams stopped. I guess she wanted to
know...in even death.
edit on 11-7-2012 by Staroth because: edit