posted on Jul, 9 2012 @ 03:05 PM
ill add my advice for what its worth,
Don't start something you cant or don't want to finish, i always had a problem of saying something hurtful and then walking away, my wife doesn't
let that slide she will follow me around and hold me accountable for it, this has taught me to think before i speak, not that im scared of her or
don't want to deal with her, it has been a major issue of mine in many relationships.
TALK, if somethings on your mind talk about it, we go thru our moments were we feel like we are drifting apart, usually one of us will bring it up and
we talk about whats going on, and work it out. usually results in lots of sex for the coming weeks
destroy the barriers, push your comfort zone to the threshold, experiment with new positions, things that will help instill trust within each other.
if you don't feel you can't trust your partner with your guilty pleasures or fetish's chances are you won't trust them in many other aspects of
life. even if you find their needs weird or not up your ally just go with it, there is no need for secrets if they feel they can trust you, and if
they can trust you with their perversions what else is there to really hide
Give each other space. we are all individuals with different interest and different needs. My wife don't give me crap about going out with my friends
driving rc trucks or working all night on audio systems, in return i make sure she has time to go out with her friends dancing or just to hang out and
have some drinks. she's alot more sociable then i. Just remember it has to go both ways, no one wants to sit at home and deal with the kids and feel
ignored by their significant other. as in all things in life balance is key.
just let them know at every chance that you love them and tell them how much they mean to you. and dont just say it show them! even if its standing in
the kitchen holding them for 5 mins, women love to be in their mans arms, (at least mine does) to feel comforted and safe, at home. if she's had a
rough day give her a foot rub or back rub. tell her what she means to you, and how amazing she is. Let them know they inspire you to be a better
person, not for them but for yourself because of them.
and above all else...... foreplay get them on the verge of orgasm before any sorta of penetration, women love to be pampered or doused in
attention.Put your needs second to hers, if you can make a girl beg for you to get in her then you got her for life. there is plenty of ways to show
your love and dedication with out full on sexual intercourse. just be brave and adventures and as stated earlier break down your barriers. they know
when you are giving them your all, and the connection from there is a strong bond.
took me 5 years of dating and a year of marriage before i fully let down my guard with my wife, had many bad relationships that damaged me and
prevented me to be open with her, now thats out of the way we are stronger then ever.
Choosing witch one is worthy of all this is on you and tends to be a long painful road, but in the end you find that one, and it makes it all worth
it. good luck peeps.