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Originally posted by Ranong
Its time for daddy to grow a pair!! "even when my daughter tells me im the best daddy in the world I still feel guilty"
Well take out the kid that raped your daughter.
In a smart way of course.
I would rather feel guilty for murder than feel guilty for not doing anything about protecting my children from a rapist who lives down the street.
Well, you can't have it both ways.
When an adult has sex with a willing 14 year old, the adult gets in big trouble. The state has decided a person of this age is not responsible for their actions.
So, if a 14 year old does something awful, like what this kid did, you can't change the way the law is applied and suddenly say the kid is responsible for his actions.
Originally posted by getreadyalready
reply to post by MrWendal
Please realize, I am not attacking you, or saying anything personally bad about you, but I want to take your words and paint a little different picture.
You were a 14 year old boy, that looked at porn,
and didn't have a father at home
Luckily you were a good kid, but how would that have looked if you did do something terrible? All the pieces were there, you could have done something terrible, and they could have blamed it on the tragic event, or porn, or just about anything.
Originally posted by getreadyalready
reply to post by DeyTookErJeobs
Sure, the Judge is an idiot, and 14 year old boys do not need porn or anything else to run around wanting to screw anything with a hole in it. 14 year old boys are just walking hormones, but they are supposed to know better. "Wanting to" and actually doing it are entirely different things, and the kid needs severe punishment.
Then again, the father of the little girl grappling with feelings of guilt? HELL YEAH! You don't leave your daughter alone with a 14 year old boy. Who the hell hires a 14 year old boy as a babysitter for a little girl? He should feel guilty. He should also feel guilty that the little rapist ever made it to court. I couldn't live with myself knowing he was still consuming our precious air.
What a bunch of morons, from the parents, to the boy, to the judge. Ridiculous.
Luckily she is only 4, and if her parents can do a little better job in the future, she should be just fine.
Originally posted by Amanda5
reply to post by getreadyalready
You obviously have not read up on the long term effects of abuse - particularly sexual abuse. It leads to all manner of self harm and addictions and suicide. Read about the long term effects.
All those people who gave such a shallow and baseless post a star - let's hope you are never sexually abused and God forbid your Children - then you can see the first hand detrimental effects that the abuse has.
Ignoring what happens and pretending it does not happen is ignorance but I guess the people doing the most ignoring are the ones who have the most to say.
Studies have shown that even small babies who are sexually/abused feel pain and fear - but I guess as long as you tell the baby or Child that it's over that's all that matters.
Much Peace...to all the abused Children...edit on 7-7-2012 by Amanda5 because: Spelling