14 year old boy let off after raping 4 year old.

Mother of four-year-old girl raped by boy, 14, blasts judge who freed him because he had been corrupted by internet porn for 'cheap sentence

The mother of a four-year-old girl raped by a teenage babysitter has revealed the pain that has haunted her since the horrific ordeal. The woman said there are days when she 'can't stop crying' after discovering her daughter had been assaulted by the 14-year-old son of a family friend. And the father is tormented by feelings of guilt for allowing the toddler to be left in the clutches of the disturbed babysitter.

Speaking publicly for the first time since the attacker walked free from court, the couple blasted the decision not to impose a custodial sentence - and feared their daughter could bump into her rapist any day. Instead, the judge imposed a three-year community order after blaming ‘the world and society’ for his exposure to porn.

What is wrong with this country, this had made me physically sick, can't even begin to image how the parents are feeling. I'm getting sick of this country and the judges letting good, innocent people down, this young girl will have to go through her whole life with memory of that horrific ordeal, she may not even know what has happened to her, while her rapist is let of because it's 'not his fault'

Her daughter, who is now five, knows 'something horrible' happened but doesn't understand what. The girl is likely to have counseling as she grows up to deal with the long-term effects of the ordeal, but both parents are 'worried' about what her future now holds.

I'm not going to lie to any one, i watch pornography at times, 99% of men probably do, but i have no intentions to sexually assault anyone, especially children. The scary thing is that if he was an adult he would of only received 6 years in prison, people who took part in the riots got more then that, i am generally sick of this country, if he's not getting sentenced because it's 'society's' fault, with that logic you might as well release all the murderers and rapists who said they were influenced by films because it's not their fault.

A 14 year old has no excuse for blaming porn, they are old enough to understand what is wrong or right, erghhh just cant see what logic was going through the judges mind when he made this decision.

(Happened in England)

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reply to post by DeyTookErJeobs


This is just making the "internet" look bad because of retarded kid.

Now they blame the internet more and more and try to enforce more rules...


edit, removed mother/4 yr old, my bad.

You're sick of which country ? It would help if you said

I dont understand, it was a 4 year old raped and 14 year boy let of, which my title states The mother is talking about what her and her daughter has been through.

reply to post by DeyTookErJeobs


Sure, the Judge is an idiot, and 14 year old boys do not need porn or anything else to run around wanting to screw anything with a hole in it. 14 year old boys are just walking hormones, but they are supposed to know better. "Wanting to" and actually doing it are entirely different things, and the kid needs severe punishment.

Then again, the father of the little girl grappling with feelings of guilt? HELL YEAH! You don't leave your daughter alone with a 14 year old boy. Who the hell hires a 14 year old boy as a babysitter for a little girl? He should feel guilty. He should also feel guilty that the little rapist ever made it to court. I couldn't live with myself knowing he was still consuming our precious air.

What a bunch of morons, from the parents, to the boy, to the judge. Ridiculous.

Luckily she is only 4, and if her parents can do a little better job in the future, she should be just fine.

reply to post by sayzaar


Sorry forgot that everybody is not a football fan, England of course.

And more idiocy!

Her daughter, who is now five, knows 'something horrible' happened but doesn't understand what. The girl is likely to have counseling as she grows up to deal with the long-term effects of the ordeal, but both parents are 'worried' about what her future now holds.

Really? How does she know? Because they TOLD HER! All she knows is the boy was mean to her, and hurt her. Its over now, there is no need for her to have to deal with it for life, but the idiot parents, and idiot counselors are not going to let her just forget about it, NO, instead they are going to explain to her just how horrible it was, and how horrible she should feel, and they are going to make sure and keep reminding her as she gets old enough to understand it.

reply to post by DeyTookErJeobs


I think it's about time "deytookhisjeob". ....Sorry, I had to.

Anyway, what did you expect? The judge doesn't want to send a 14 year old to jail. Take consolation in the fact that all you have to do is send one of your third cousins from Georgia to castrate him and leave the bloody carcass in a Mississippi swamp. Either that, or wait until he does it again, then petition until the stupid judge changes his/her mind.

I like the Mississippi swamp idea better.

Edit: England? And you guys say America is bad...our judges don't put up with that crap here.

that is terrible , what country did this happen in? you are mad cause they let him "off:" not of , I don't usually mention spelling but it made your thread title hard to read and the sentence in your last post. You don't want that to distract from this story.

what the ,.//// does watching porn have to do with the fact that he attacked a "child", a child, that is a whole separate issue in itself. That poor mom and little girl...

reply to post by research100


Ever heard of child pornography? Could have everything to do with it...

But still, then they have to work on laws that apparently allow 14 year olds to watch child pornography! I know one thing for sure: if I ever get another Brit yakking about how bad America is, I'm throwing this one right between their teeth. They can chew on their own country's mistakes for a while.

reply to post by DeyTookErJeobs


I was taught that the (age of reason) is 6 years old...that is when people are really grasping what is right and what is wrong. The 14 year old teen in question I believe should be in treatment and get help now. I hate what he has done and always will. I used to take a really hard line on these sorts of crimes...however I have been good friends with a man that is a professional therapist for 6 years now...and we recently got into discussions about young predators; I have learned that some of them are acting out what was done to them and how they were raised and that not all of them are monsters. I am hoping this boy gets help and that he is not one of those monsters.

The little girl that was harmed...my heart and soul go out to her. I hope and pray that she gets the help now early in life that she needs and will heal from this experience.

this teen has a major problem, raped a child, porn or no porn, he would have done it anyway. Terrible thing to happen.

Originally posted by getreadyalready
And more idiocy!

Her daughter, who is now five, knows 'something horrible' happened but doesn't understand what. The girl is likely to have counseling as she grows up to deal with the long-term effects of the ordeal, but both parents are 'worried' about what her future now holds.

Really? How does she know? Because they TOLD HER! All she knows is the boy was mean to her, and hurt her. Its over now, there is no need for her to have to deal with it for life, but the idiot parents, and idiot counselors are not going to let her just forget about it, NO, instead they are going to explain to her just how horrible it was, and how horrible she should feel, and they are going to make sure and keep reminding her as she gets old enough to understand it.

edit on 6-7-2012 by getreadyalready because: (no reason given)

this is so true. she is too young to remember , so why not let her forget the specifics. poor young girl..

reply to post by caladonea


I just learned of the "age of reason." Funny you should mention it. Just yesterday a friend of mine was talking about his son's 8th birthday party. This is the "age of reason" in his Mormon Faith, and his son will become accountable for his own actions after this birthday. It is a big celebration, maybe akin to a Bar MItzvah in the Jewish faith.

Anyhow, I agree a 14 year old is accountable for their own actions, and no amount of porn will make someone rape a child.

Originally posted by getreadyalready
And more idiocy!

Her daughter, who is now five, knows 'something horrible' happened but doesn't understand what. The girl is likely to have counseling as she grows up to deal with the long-term effects of the ordeal, but both parents are 'worried' about what her future now holds.

Really? How does she know? Because they TOLD HER! All she knows is the boy was mean to her, and hurt her. Its over now, there is no need for her to have to deal with it for life, but the idiot parents, and idiot counselors are not going to let her just forget about it, NO, instead they are going to explain to her just how horrible it was, and how horrible she should feel, and they are going to make sure and keep reminding her as she gets old enough to understand it.

edit on 6-7-2012 by getreadyalready because: (no reason given)

You make a great point. Too many are attached to revisiting the wounds through counseling and therapy, and though that may help initially for those traumatized, I think the best way to move on is to move ahead, and quit giving the incident too much thought or power.

Some individuals may need the therapy to actually get to this point, if they are plagued by memories, but in my mind and opinion, healing is taking place, when it can become a distant memory , that doesn't affect you anymore. Children have the best possibility of allowing this to happen.

Of course he should be accountable for his actions, its not like he had something wrong with him either, his excuse was 'my hormones were going crazy', i don't see people who shoot each other getting let of because their 'trigger finger' was a tad itchy.

I remember a 14 year old being arrested because he killed his mother with a hammer and set her on fire, an idea he got of a show in England, why is this not the same everywhere, he had a choice and had enough life experience to know what is wrong.

I just thought, to enlighten a few, if he was in my state, California, he would get 10 years CYA, thats cali youth authority, prison for up to 25. And YOU know WHAT? he would be a career psychopath gangster after that...I know what he did was very wrong, but does isolation, deprivation help anyone? no. clearly prison and lockup should only be for the most serious crimes, that young girl experienced hours of pain, but a 10 year prison sentence would be for 10 freeken years. It always amazes me how you can rob a bank in 30 seconds and spend 25 years in prison. The right thing probably happened here, he will get therapy and counseling, as opposed to spending time with other sex offenders, in a gang infested youth prison.

Its time for daddy to grow a pair!! "even when my daughter tells me im the best daddy in the world I still feel guilty"
Well take out the kid that raped your daughter.
In a smart way of course.
I would rather feel guilty for murder than feel guilty for not doing anything about protecting my children from a rapist who lives down the street.

Originally posted by Ranong
I would rather feel guilty for murder than feel guilty for not doing anything about protecting my children from a rapist who lives down the street.

Then the father of the boy could "take out" the girl's father, the girl's mother could "take out" the boy's mother, etc. etc, and nothing would change the fact that the parents did leave the girl alone with someone they clearly didn't know.

Originally posted by ArMaP

Originally posted by Ranong
I would rather feel guilty for murder than feel guilty for not doing anything about protecting my children from a rapist who lives down the street.

Then the father of the boy could "take out" the girl's father, the girl's mother could "take out" the boy's mother, etc. etc, and nothing would change the fact that the parents did leave the girl alone with someone they clearly didn't know.

edit on 6/7/2012 by ArMaP because: missed a '

That's the whole "eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind" argument, but it isn't realistic. When one person responds with overwhelming and disproportionate force, the issue is usually dead. If someone raped my 4 year old, you better believe they would be dead, and if there was any worry about retribution from their family, then I'd make sure everyone that knew them was dead too. I wouldn't care if it was right or wrong, legal or illegal, and I'd be satisfied burning in hell for it, no problem. I'd still do what needed to be done. If its done correctly, there is no chance of retribution.