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Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
reply to post by sonnny1
HA! Don't you mean a kindle....or whatever the crap they are called. Books are so old school....even though I cannot imagine not holding a book and turning the pages as I read. Oh how I dread the day our books become extinct.
Originally posted by nenothtu
Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
The funniest thing I remember my mother saying (b/c it just never made sense, although it did) was...It will stop hurting when the pain goes away.
Really....isn't that a given?????
My dad used to tell me - whether it was a gash, a sting, a broken bone, or whatever - that "It'll feel alright when it quits hurtin' ".
It generally made me look at him like he's just stepped off a flying saucer or something.
Originally posted by sonnny1
Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
reply to post by sonnny1
HA! Don't you mean a kindle....or whatever the crap they are called. Books are so old school....even though I cannot imagine not holding a book and turning the pages as I read. Oh how I dread the day our books become extinct.
One good blast from the sun, could change our world forever..........
I also believe Parents should take their children to Libraries. My Parents took me. My kids love the library.
Originally posted by Forgoten_Whisper
and a bedroom with no door.
Originally posted by sonnny1
reply to post by nenothtu
Same with my Father. Get a spanking, for almost burning down the house. That's what happens when you try to light fireworks,on the stove.
It was ALWAYS balance. It was ALWAYS a lesson. I have to say the one thing I really learned. The look. You know the one. Sometimes, that's all you need. Best lesson I always learned, next to giving your kid a big hug, and telling them you never want to lay a hand on them. I have my oldest daughter, who I NEVER had to lay a hand on her behind. Why? Because the look works......
Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
Are You Serious???? You are the first person that I have EVER encountered in my life that heard a similar saying to what I heard growing up!
That is awesome...crap, we might be related!?????
Originally posted by speculativeoptimist
I too have experienced my share of corporeal punishment that was well deserved, but my father also made me understand the error of my ways not only through punishment and talks,
Originally posted by sonnny1
reply to post by nenothtu
Same with my Father. Get a spanking, for almost burning down the house. That's what happens when you try to light fireworks,on the stove.
It was ALWAYS balance. It was ALWAYS a lesson. I have to say the one thing I really learned. The look. You know the one. Sometimes, that's all you need. Best lesson I always learned, next to giving your kid a big hug, and telling them you never want to lay a hand on them. I have my oldest daughter, who I NEVER had to lay a hand on her behind. Why? Because the look works......
Originally posted by eletheia
reply to post by Kangaruex4Ewe
I normally don't post a reply before reading the whole thread, but in this instance i have
made an exception as your op made me chuckle
Many a time when my daughers were growing up i would often snap out of sheer frustration
"because i said so"
When one of my daughters had her own daughter she was so pc and vowed her daughter
would get a FULL explanation and she would NEVER say "because i said so."
There was many a time i would grit my teeth as i sat through these LONG drawn out
explanations that went on and on and on when the matter could have been closed very
quickly by some descisive action on my daughters part!...So imagine the look on my face
when one day such a discussion was going on in the kitchen and i very clearly heard
"BECAUSE I SAID SO"
And i have to agree with you parents are parenting a LOT less these days...After all
would you let anyone on the road in a car without some sort of instruction? yet some are
prepared to release their children into the world without any sort of preparation!
Originally posted by Forgoten_Whisper
My mom was never one to freak out over small injuries, if we were doing something stupid and we ended up with a skinned knee or something like that she would always look it over then the give us the "mom look" and say "well I bet you won't do that again" lol...Usually we didn't.
One of my brothers once attempted the threat of I calling the cops. My mom quietly responded:
Fine go ahead, but be warned, by law I only have to give a few change of cloths, 3 square meals a day, a bed to sleep on. By tomorrow morning you will loose your game system, all your posters/ decorations, any access to game systems and so on. You will be down to a mattress on the floor, one outfit for everyday of the week and a bedroom with no door.
lol, needless to say he didn't call the cops.
Originally posted by nenothtu
Originally posted by speculativeoptimist
I too have experienced my share of corporeal punishment that was well deserved, but my father also made me understand the error of my ways not only through punishment and talks,
Another time honored tactic - "the Talk".
I've had my kids say "you're not going to give me a 'talkin'-to' over that, are you?"
My own son once broke down in the middle of a "Talk" and said, exasperated, "can't you just spank me and get this over with?"
Originally posted by morder1
Haha funny topic...
I remember when i was maybe 10 or so, I called my dad a dildo...
That didnt go over very well... Damn older kids and their words got me in trouble!
Originally posted by troyroser
Sounds like some really bad childhoods.
Originally posted by 12m8keall2c
reply to post by Kangaruex4Ewe
we always taught the kids that similarization through association is near inevitable, and that despite your best efforts you'll never be able to control the actions of others, yet always be able to control Your participation therein ... or lack thereof.
they turned out pretty damn good, imo
respectful, morally-balanced [if there is such a thing] and keen to helping others if/when in a time of need.
me?
if only we had more of the same anymore these days
Originally posted by irsuccubus
One of my mother's favorite lines to throw at me was
"Association brings about assimilation"
She was very good at reading people and was adamant about me being highly selective about relationships...be they romantic or friendships. She hated when I hung out with people she saw as dregs and wasted no time in letting us know where we were messing up when I or my brothers brought home a new love that she wasnt keen on.
I cant bring myself to use that line but I still pass on a similar lesson to my own kids. I teach them to be on guard for emotional vampires and time burglars or those with no interest in moving forward and being their most effective selves.