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Originally posted by sonnny1
reply to post by Kangaruex4Ewe
I remember when children had Parents, that gave them morals and principles . Even single Parents were up to the task. Political correctness has made our children soft . Parents cannot even spank their children, without the Child making the effort to let the Parent "know" they can call the Police. Parents have given up on Punishment,and have been given the task, of issuing Timeouts. I am grateful for my Parents, instilling guidelines, that I now instill with my children. The lack of morals and Principles,and the lack of Parents being there, is what has killed the family. Leaving Facebook and Video games to raise children,has a lasting impact,on society. MHO
S&Fedit on 3-7-2012 by sonnny1 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
reply to post by Kangaruex4Ewe
I know what you mean about less hands on parenting these days....
I also heard the saying "I brought you into this world"...and it took several years for me to even understand what the hell they were talking about.
The funniest thing I remember my mother saying (b/c it just never made sense, although it did) was...It will stop hurting when the pain goes away.
Really....isn't that a given?????
Originally posted by Numbers33four
Why do we need parents anymore when we have public schools, TV and Lady Caca.
Just give your kids a bag of condoms when they hit five and turn em loose.
Originally posted by sonnny1
Parents cannot even spank their children, without the Child making the effort to let the Parent "know" they can call the Police.
Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
The funniest thing I remember my mother saying (b/c it just never made sense, although it did) was...It will stop hurting when the pain goes away.
Really....isn't that a given?????
Originally posted by nenothtu
Originally posted by sonnny1
Parents cannot even spank their children, without the Child making the effort to let the Parent "know" they can call the Police.
My son tried that Psywar tactic.
Once.
I quietly and firmly let him know that it would take at least 20 minutes for the cops to get there, and that if I were going to jail anyhow, I would most assuredly make it worth their trip. Then I asked him how much damage he thought I might be able to do given 20 minutes or so to work on it.
Then I handed him the phone, and said "Call 'em if you gotta. I'm ready whenever you are. The number is '9-1-1' ".
It will surprise you no doubt to hear that he dropped the phone as if I'd handed him a snake. There were no further Psywar attempts. Ever.
He's now getting ready to graduate high school with excellent grades, and taking classes at a local college for EMT certification. He turned out not to be such a bad kid after all!
edit on 2012/7/3 by nenothtu because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by sonnny1
I think children shouldn't have to resort, to lawyer tactics. This is what schools, have taught our children. Call the police, for EVERYTHING. Sad.
Originally posted by nenothtu
I remember when I was little, my own dad would have occasion to spank me every now and then. I'd scream and squall and wail and hide in a corner for a while, and when I was done I'd sneak back up to dad and ask "are you mad at me"? He always said "nope.". So then I'd ask "Do you still love me?" and he'd always say "Yep." then I'd crawl up in his lap, and all was right with the world again.