posted on Jul, 3 2012 @ 03:12 AM
reply to post by abaraikenshi
Any fool can walk up to someone and ask them out, but there is tact behind it, and that tact is what I'm looking for.
I think you missed the point.
I'm not saying you go up to her and say, "hey baby, you wanna go out?".
Of course you do it in your own way, but asking some random strangers on the internet, what you should say, is just weak, IMHO.
Let's say you have a ATSer give you exactly what to say, you to go out, and then start dating. A couple months down the line, she asks you about the
time you asked her out. You either tell her someone else told you what to say, or lie about it. Either scenario, can cause problems.
Since you already have known her, you're not some random Joe just asking her out. Since you say you have self-esteem/confidence issues, maybe you
being bold and asking her out , is just the kind of thing that appeals to her.Women do love a confident man, but don't confuse confidence with
Good luck sir and good nite!
edit on 3-7-2012 by freedom12 because: (no reason given)