posted on Jul, 2 2012 @ 10:45 AM
Believe it or not, not all women will screw the father of their child over for child support. I did no such thing with my ex over our child, even
though I could if I had wanted to. My ex was going through his second or third childhood, and I didn't want to raise two kids, that's the only
reason I left. My home life is pretty well structured, and having people over until dark thirty in the morning isn't going to happen when there's a
child involved. The woman here is being confronted with a huge change in her life, and as you said, she is pretty guarded with her emotions already.
Be there. Just be close if she needs you, quietly supporting her in her decisions. Don't loom over her, don't pester, but be there like a shelter
for when her life becomes stormy. It may take years, but one day she will see that you haven't failed her or your child. I won't say you two will
get back together ( never go back, only forward) but just make sure that you have a good relationship with your offspring.