posted on Jul, 1 2012 @ 05:46 PM
As a woman, I'll try to help you, without making light of your situation.
But first, I need to know, how was your relationship? Was it fractious, with frequent fights, or was it all quiet and good, and then suddenly she up
and leaves you?
How "connected" were you? Many men don't really connect with their partners on an emotional level, and the woman is left angry and feeling unloved
and unfulfilled from a psychological standpoint. The men usually say they had no idea why the breakup occurred.
Men (in my experience, and I cannot speak for all men since I haven't met them all) tend to "compartmentalize" their life, and their girlfriend /
wife is in one compartment, work in another, friends in another, ect. For women, it is all in one big pool.
Clue me in on some more details, and perhaps I can shed some light on how to make the best of this. I need to know what kind of person she is, and
what kind of person you are, in terms of the relationship.