Thinking about this, I don't think it's a Gender issue, more of an attitude/personality issue.

Like, the girls/guys who try to be super dominate over aspects of their partners lives, etc

Ths is sexist but I fll true...

Both men and women want to cheat in about even numbers. However...

Not every man that wants to cheat can... sometimes there are no takers.

But with a woman... all she has to do is hang the "open for business" sign out and she can run around all she wants.

I have had the opportunity to cheat... never have. In fact I race home... kiss my wife and tell her about the approach" because I didn't want any "he said, she said" to come back and haunt me.

True story...I used to work in a grocery store in produce... it was summer... a very nice woman walks up with 2 cantaloupes in her hands and a very ow cut tank top with her assets pouring out. She comes straight up to me... I knew her as a regular...holds the melons out... right in front of the other melons and half smirking and enticingly says.."Which ones do you think taste the best?"

I think that people get cheated on and then think that's just how things really are, so they become calloused and become cheaters too.

I've never been cheated on and am not a cheater myself, but I was a really nice person when I was little and my mom was really mean, so then I became mean too for awhile because I saw my own natural, kind reactions as abnormal and weird.

(I'm not mean anymore though, because as an adult I got to see that I had a warped perception).