I posted a comment on another thread, replying to someone who posted this;
If the exterior of a woman is what deems hotness to you, more power to ya, but pretty girl with no redeeming qualities is not hotness imo. That's
like having a Lambo in the garage with no engine. But hey, that's just me.
Which I ended up having the urge to reply with this;
Inside qualities about women or men are considered good qualities but let's face it. The only people that even says it's about what's on the "inside"
that matters not not the outside are most likely probably the people who are lacking in the self-esteem department. Whatever the issue that may be,
that causes them to lack in such department is the reason for their natural equilibrium for being "nice" towards others.
Sorry but the exterior of a woman does matter because it's the first thing we see about a person which ultimately decides what we think of the person.
There's many people out there that will settle for less than what they consider "attractive" and would offten reassure these people that they are
attractive for what's inside just so the relationship actually has the chance to last longer. Nobody wants to be alone, and it's only human nature to
feel this way. Sorry, but it's life. 4s end up with 4s, 6s end up with 6s, 9s end up with 9s, so on and forth. It's just the way it is.
If people believe long enough that it's really the inside that matters. They will eventully believe their own lies because they don't want to believe
that that's how the entire World just may be. Truth hurts, that's all I can say about it.
There's a reason why there is a saying, that "nice guys finish last".
And that is one of the many reason why Ignorance is Bliss.
After posting the comment, got me thinking about creating my own thread on the topic of "Ignorance is Bliss" and possibly talk about the topics, and
maybe even understanding them better. In this thread, we share our knowledge and widsom that often makes us miserable. I say miserable, because that's
how I am. After all, it is the opposite of bliss. I figure sharing the knowledge and widsom with others that actually understand how we could possibly
make us less miserable, even if it's just for a day
If this thread kicks off, I will post more topics regarding "Ignorance is bliss" from my personal experience.
edit on 11-6-2012 by TheProphetMark because: (no reason given)