posted on Jun, 10 2012 @ 02:25 AM
reply to post by mydarlia
I am no stranger to dealing with cancer deaths. In the past 5 years or so I've been fortunate enough to see only a single one, (have been fortunate
enough to not loose my imidiate familly, extended fams different story). Since i've been around i've went to the funerals of 14 cancer victims from
the familly (of which is pretty damn big i might say).
This next part you might not want to here, but I believe that everyone deserves the truth no matter how hard it may be to accept.
Of the members in my familly there have been 4 who survived cancer. Three of them survived because of chemo, and one survived by being one of the
strongest women i've ever met. Of the 14 who passed 10 were using chemo therapy.
Now one thing I want to say is that although it's been the only thing that has cured the cancer, living the last few years of your life with
chemotherapy is no way to go out.
The best advice I can give you is to be strong. Your mom will draw off your strength, and eventually your dad will too. The power of belief is whats
going to help her make it through this.
Death is a natural part of life. Only the beging of another journey.
I'll u2u you with some good health things for your mom.