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posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 04:32 AM
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Well this is my little rant to blow off some steam from the trouble that I had from this adult sex site that I signed up for. I got a year membership from this sex site. I gave them my credit card number, and shortly after I got a call from my bank that the creditcard has been breached. They froze my credit card account and let me know. I thanked them for stopping those bastards. I thought they were a legitimate site. It had the ecryption and everything on the site. But I guess if you are desperate for a girl friend you might as well be searching for one by foot instead of searching for the one online. Anyway for you fellas out there don't get sucked into those sex websites, they'll just take your money and throw out your creditcard like it don't matter. I am a bit drunk typing this. So I am very careful on my wording. But I'm glad they didn't take much out of my account. I should send them a favor and poop in a bag and hope they recieve it. So they can get a reminder of how they treated me like poop. I would like to do that that would make me feel so much better. It's like if you're gonna treat your customers like poop then all what you'll get is poop. So I'll make it happen haha. I know some of you might think it's a bad idea, but I feel like I'm really pissed at them for giving away my creditcard number. Even though I admit I felt a bit stupid for listening to my mind and figured I might get some action. If I wasn't into sex I wouldn't have even bothered. My dad was even curious as to why I had signed up. He was saying is sex really that important? Remember I am turning 25 at the end of June and my dad is 55. I'm at my prime here. I can't help myself really. My dad's sex drive would be much lower than mine. He already has his glory now it's time for my glory haha! Anyway if there is any suggestions as to where to start finding girls that would be much appritiated as to where some of the hotspots are? :p




posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 04:40 AM
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Your looking for a relationship on a seedy sex site? You may want to start looking elsewhere, there's plenty of professional dating sites.

Your not going to find a true love on some seedy site mate so count it as a lesson learnt


edit on 9-6-2012 by n00bUK because: (no reason given)



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 04:47 AM
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you should go on a major one like adult friend finder



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 05:12 AM
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Originally posted by definity
you should go on a major one like adult friend finder






I think when people sign up to these stupid things they really need to consider what would possess a girl on the other end to do the same. Somehow I don't think "Adult friend finder" or the like is going to be a top spot for girls. As if they don't get hit on enough in real life....




posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 05:22 AM
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There is a difference between online dating and online sex sites. I did online dating for a bit when I lived in London and there was a large pool of talent, now I am back in a small market town, the standard has reduced significantly. The women on the sites here are all pretty ropey. They send through pictures/mugshots to me , but most look like the faces you would see on Crime Watch.

I think I may live in one of the ugliest towns in Britain, I walk through my town looking for an attractive woman like a needle in a haystack, then if I do see one, she's normally pushing a pram. A lot of women in the UK have let themselves go or at the opposite end want to be footballers girlfriends. Trying to find someone in the middle is not easy.



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 05:27 AM
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Originally posted by woodwardjnr, but most look like the faces you would see on Crime Watch.


LOL. a face to suit a telesales job.


OP: try match.com or harmony.com w/e there called. I know plentyoffish is international, not sure about the other but their worth a try pal



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 05:44 AM
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Oh you'd be surprised, some girls just want a quickie mid week and don't want to spend a couple hours getting all dolled up then going to a bar and wasting time and money on drinks to pick up.



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 06:06 AM
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Originally posted by woodwardjnr
....They send through pictures/mugshots to me , but most look like the faces you would see on Crime Watch.

....I think I may live in one of the ugliest towns in Britain, I walk through my town looking for an attractive woman like a needle in a haystack, then if I do see one, she's normally pushing a pram.....





posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 06:17 AM
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Originally posted by n00bUK
Your looking for a relationship on a seedy sex site? You may want to start looking elsewhere, there's plenty of professional dating sites.

Your not going to find a true love on some seedy site mate so count it as a lesson learnt


edit on 9-6-2012 by n00bUK because: (no reason given)


Thanks for your opinion, I have become less interested in the sex sites now then I was when I wasn't thinking. Although overall just paying for a dating site site it just doesn't sit with me right. it all seems to end up being to pay to chat. Meeting in person all varies from person to person. If all dating sites were like POF. Free then that wouldn't bother me. That way I know I won't be driven into some sort of scam.



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 06:21 AM
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socialsex was the next one but Adult Finder would legitamently been my 3rd choice. But now I know not to use my creditcard on any kind of pornish site. Only on those legitament sites. But why even pay for that it's all over the net!



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 10:41 AM
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Oh boy......Well, let's see.....the only "legitimate" sex site I've ever heard of is Friend Finder. Everybody on there is a horn dog who only wants one thing, and that is understood. I have a male friend who used friend finder because his wife and he weren't getting along and she was, let's say, "uncooperative" in that area.

He found some woman who was attractive but into multiple partners. As a result of her appetite, he now has herpes. How super for him....gave it to his wife eventually. They are divorced now, as you can imagine. And don't think that using a condom will save you from the Big H, because it won't. Just a cautionary tale.

I think dating sites are where plenty of men get lucky, but most of the women on those sites are looking for a relationship, so you have to indicate that you are not looking for one, just looking for some temporary company. But, however, most men get theirs within a relationship, so that's something you may want to consider.

As for the men complaining that there are no good-looking women in their area online, it might behoove them to look in a mirror. Maybe they don't have what it takes to attract a good-looking woman. Some men look like overfed bull dogs and are broke and carless, but want a classy, cute little honey. Ain't gonna happen, fellas.



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 01:20 PM
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Originally posted by polarwarrior
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Oh you'd be surprised, some girls just want a quickie mid week and don't want to spend a couple hours getting all dolled up then going to a bar and wasting time and money on drinks to pick up.


Which is why they have Ashley Madison and the like. "Adult friend finder" and about 20 others though are all run by the same company to lure guys into paid memberships with fake accounts of people that don't really exist.



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 01:28 PM
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Originally posted by boncho
Which is why they have Ashley Madison and the like. "Adult friend finder" and about 20 others though are all run by the same company to lure guys into paid memberships with fake accounts of people that don't really exist.


And those who are real are usually riddled with STD's... (not only women; men included)

I'm no prude, but if someone is so desperate to sign up for a sex-finder site, they arent even worth the trouble to deal with in my opinion.
edit on 9-6-2012 by Isabelx because: (no reason given)



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 01:36 PM
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Well me personally I can say something for the POF site. I am currently dating an incredible woman I met there. I almost didn't reply to her message since she didn't have a photo posted but figured why not. We have been dating for a few months now exclusive and am happier than I have been in a very long time. I messed around with a couple sites but that one was free so I went with it. If I wanna get laid I can hit the local spots but that crap got old years ago. Good luck op cause sometimes people do get lucky and find someone they just dont want to live without.



posted on Jun, 9 2012 @ 06:03 PM
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No worries fellas. I kind of thought about all of these one night stands. It doesn't feel right to me at all. I am looking for a committed relationship that hopefully will stay strong. I wanna get out of the wild party scenes, and only drink in moderation without getting wasted. There will be hopefully one day that the both of us can enjoy something together.



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