Any time you have sexual intercourse you have the chance of producing a baby.
I was the product of a affair.
End result, I never got to know my father, nor given his last name (my family heritage) or his family, my paternal - 50% of my DNA.
My mother like wise was adopted because evidently in 1910 my maternal grandmother did not marry and then had a child (my mother) who was adopted out
to a wealthy family.
Heritage.............most of you know your grandmothers and grandfathers, aunts, uncles, etc.....I envy you, truly envy you.
My family evidently has never done anything the acceptable, "normal" way.
All sexual intercourse could result in the bringing forth of a human who is deserving of being wanted, loved, cherished and allowed to know their
Casual sex can result in STD and pregnancy.
Why don't people get to know each other first?
What ever happened to courting?
To talking to each other and finding out about each other?
Aren't humans suppose to be smarter than other animals, more deeper??????
Sex for fun - I personally never just gave myself to someone I didn't know and love.
No, I did not go to my wedding bed a virgin.
Religions say sex is bad outside of marriage because they possibly try to drive home the fact that getting to know someone, their feelings on
important issues, their morality, their inner workings as it were are important.
My husband of 38 years is my very best friend. We know each other inside and out and to tell you the truth - I couldn't go back to casual sex for the
thrill of a ten second orgasm ever again.
On our first date my husband of 38 almost 39 years talked for 6 hours about our dreams, hopes, wants, needs, what we wanted out of life.
There is nothing like having sex with someone you really know, you really trust, your most best friend.
I pray each night I go before him because without him - I would be 1/2 a person. He is my everything. Stuck with me through thick and thin.
Religion does not paint sex outside of marriage bad in so much as I think getting to know the person first.
Sex is not a sport or a pleasure to be taken lightly.................it leaves a mark upon your soul.
Two merge as one.
The only other experience more holy is that of carrying a baby for 9+ months.
This is my own experience, my own view point such as it is from a old lady.
Family is family.............it is your DNA, Your bloodline and TPTB know that to break the ties that bind, particularly family ties is the final
conquering of a people.
edit on 7-6-2012 by ofhumandescent because: (no reason given)
edit on 7-6-2012 by ofhumandescent
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