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Originally posted by MsAphrodite
sacrifice
Originally posted by Xoanon
reply to post by arpgme
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Originally posted by Germanicus
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Limerence is a good word.
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Unrequited is good too.
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They are kinds of love.
Courtly Love is worth looking into as well.
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edit on 28-5-2012 by Germanicus because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by MsAphrodite
reply to post by arpgme
True love leads to a complete absence of focus on the self. Desire becomes focused entirely on the object of one's love, and so sacrifice is the natural outcome. Two in love together sacrifice for each other in a perfect symbiotic relationship. Think about it, when you say you are in love, it is because your focus is now off of yourself and on your love.
Originally posted by arpgme
If the word "Love" did not exist and you have to use a word to describe its most important quality, what would that be?
Would it be care or affection? Or do you have a better word? It can only be one word and it has to be what you believe is the best quality of love.
Originally posted by MsAphrodite
No I think just sacrifice is fine. It does not specify what kind of sacrifice, but real love is rare, as is the proper form of sacrifice.
Originally posted by ThreeSistersofLoveandLigh
Unfortunately when we speak of love, it is generally to "romantic love", "familial love" or "sexual love" that we refer to, and that is only a portion of what love encompasses.
Unless you can encompass all types of love within the definition it falls short and is inadequate in it's description.
The best definition that I have ever heard of what "love" is came from my son:
"Love is the sincere concern of someone else's happiness and well being"
If I had to sum that up in one word it would be "concern", but his statement really says it all.edit on 5/28/2012 by ThreeSistersofLoveandLigh because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by smithjustinb
Real love has to be unconditional. The reason for this is because all is one. So if you hate anything about existence, you cannot truly love something else. Also, if you love anything about existence, you cannot truly hate something else.
Unconditional love requires that you love what you might call, "evil". That is the biggest road block to having true love. What you call "evil", you might as well call, "that which I fear or hate".
All is one. Unconditional love requires that you love all. By loving all, you will have found love for the first time. I still haven't found it.