Originally posted by WhisperingWinds
reply to post by RisenAngel77
If you have been a friend to her, you should know what triggers certain reactions, if you've been paying attention.
I would say that you most likely know the answer , and perhaps aren't being honest with yourself about it?
Its very hard to give you straight answers when we only get your version, and it could be edited at that.
Why don't you get her to come on here and give us her side.
First I apologize, I shouldn't have generalized it to all women, I am aware both men and women tend to have similar tendencies, however I base my
statistics on personal encounters. But as I stated, I used my story as a metaphor to ask a question, the question is the topic, not the story. I did
not intend to make this a thread about me and her, but rather get opinions based on the question.
No, I didnt know what triggered it, I have theory's and assumptions from analyzing, but your guess would be as good as mine. As for getting her to say
her side of the story? I would actually love to hear her side of the story, in fact I wanted to hear it, unfortunately she ignored me for a whole
month, spreading rumors, I sent messages didnt get a reply till about a month later.
All she said was something about me draining her energy, that I was a Psi Vampire (because I ranted too much about personal problems) she said that I
did nothing wrong, but she couldn't be friends with me which is fine, I can accept that. hell wish her well and have a nice life then.
But what I cant accept is her talking things to people and turning them against me saying things that aren't true. There is more to this story, much
much more, but i'd rather not. I posted screenshots on my profile warning people saying "If someone tells you something about me, THIS is what
happened" some of the mutual friends we have know the truth as I did forward conversations I had with her proving that the rumors were lies.
It is hard to be a friend to someone who always had their guard up and always criticized you for nearly everything you do or say. She was just a
"friend" and she knew very well I was getting to know someone.
(Though that never went anywhere thanks to her -.-, but im too annoyed to talk about that)
edit on 26-5-2012 by RisenAngel77 because: (no reason given)