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Originally posted by vancouverite
Ive been feeling empty lately, I did some digging and it brought me to yahoo, this man was talking about exactly how I've been feeling, then this random person posts everything I've been feeling in a nutshell. It's grown more intense these past couple days. Am I losing it, or do you guys feel the same?This is what the mystery poster said:
Originally posted by 13ssA
reply to post by SoulVoid
Look, I know that I am not the one who should to tell you what to do with your life, but just listen (read).
If you love your wife and you know that she made you happy some time ago, then there is no reason to brake up.
Even if you don't love your wife anymore, remember why did you married her in the first place. I don't know the reason why You are breaking up, but you should ask yourself will you be happy without her? What did you do to make her feel like a real woman? Did she make you feel like a real man? Did both of you tried hard enough to keep this relationship? Breaking up is not the solution - it is running away from problems and no one guarantees that you will not have same problems with another person. Talk to her (again, if thats the case) but with the new attitude. There is a good reading about marriage by dr. Laura Schlessinger (name: Recipe For A Happy Marriage). Read it.
And about the OP - totally agree with that feeling
Originally posted by LifeIsEnergy
reply to post by vancouverite
If you try to pile on happy and pleasant feelings on top of these negative feelings now, you will have regressed back into the 'game' of trying to fill and sustain these pleasant feelings. That is what addiction is, it is feeling a sense of despair and continuously trying to subdue that feeling with pleasant feelings.
Originally posted by paradox
reply to post by LesMisanthrope
Well I'm flattered you think my post was designed specifically for you.
In fact, that is why you replied to it. You felt like it describes you. Now your user name is making a lot of sense!
PS. I am proud I am no longer delusional like a lot of people on here are. (not all)
Thanks for taking the time out of your day to reply to little ol me
I do hope you end up feeling better about yourself and your life, because someone who creates a thread saying "Why don't we all just kill ourselves?" has some serious issues. Take care, man! Don't hurt anyone!