reply to post by Silverkiss
i also was adopted out ,, in fact my family had to PAY $10,000 to the mother and hospital/agency..
i always knew i was adopted.. and 18 months after getting adopted my mom was able to have her own children, naturally with my dad
, so i have a pair of siblings who came after..
i had heard the stories of the family i came from, and how i was the 5th child in the family, but the parents had split
up before i was born..
i never really wanted to meet my Bio-mom,, but my brothers and or Sisters who would be older, would be nice..
i have some really strange genetics, (horseshoe Kidneys and one other annomily ), and having others who may have gone through similar problems would
in the state i was born, all Adoption papers are sealed.. so i NEVER will be able to have that opportunity ..
but if i did......
i would stay away from hurting your REAL family,,(yes the ones who you have knowen all your life)--
this kind of disruption can cause MORE harm then good..!!
the answers you get will not satisfy the questions you ask!!!
edit on 5/16/12 by darrman because: spellenglish