reply to post by Cocasinpry
A friend of ours recently passed away from cancer. His present girlfriend (who he broke it off with started up again) was the only person who would
help him day to day. She took an indefinite leave of absence (up to two years) from her job with the police, gave up $160k worth of salary over the
two years, I think she hit 22 months when he passed away. She was with him every day and every night, she cleaned his colostomy bag, she bathed him,
she cooked for him, cleaned for him, ran his errands, took him to the hospital and doctors, monitored him 24/7 and she held when he was upset.
That takes a lot out of a person to trade that much energy, just to try and keep someone you care about from losing it as they approaching the end.
Our friend's son and daughter never bothered with him, treated him crap. Well, the daughter showed up the last week while he was in palliative care,
kudos to her huh?
When he passed his kids and ex-girlfriend (the one before the one taking care of him) went batsh*t and assumed they were "entitled." They started
taking stuff out of the house, tried to access bank accounts, tried to sell property, etc. Well, he had left everything, houses, accounts,
motorcycles, skidoos and ATV's, boats and really nice RV's, cars and trucks to the one person who had stood by him the last two years till the end,
his present girlfriend. His son, daughter and ex-girlfriend didn't like that much and have been dogging her on-line, trying to get her charged with
made up stuff and have also personally attacked her for the last 6 months. It's disgusting. The man on his exit wanted what he wanted, that's it,
that's all and he should get what he wanted.
Last I heard, the present girlfriend was pursuing legal remedies and since she works for the police, it may give her a slight advantage in getting
this prosecuted. But yes, it's criminal harassment and uttering threats. You might want to check and see if your local prosecutor has been bought off
or is related somehow. Carry a tape recorder or a cell phone with a recording app (Droid Record, etc) wherever you go, it may save your life, it may
save you a ton of money and grief.
People can be real scum, it just reminds me of vultures picking over a corpse.
Cheers - Dave