TMac......these arent nails in your coffin ok.....I am focusing on individuals and on positive progressive changes I wish you to make with these
men....I always have a long laundry list of things you and your crew choose to not do on or in time.....you have a lot of trouble keeping players
strengths at the forefront of your planning when you make adjusments to your processes....from game to game things are usually a wet hot mess to be
frank.
This is the least effective most labor intensive method of teaching and you have forced this dynamic for a decade because you traditionlly have had
slow learners driving your bus........and have intentionally slowed down everything around you to accomodate,including the learning curve.
My cat sits for his dinner TWICE with 2 patience tests.....when I give him his addictive feline treats ...he turns and faces AWAY from me and his
treats then SITS DOWN POLITELY ...LOOKING THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION OF WHERE HIS WANTS ARE LOCATED...he shows STRENGTH OF SPIRIT AND SELF-CONTROL....and
then he waits while I deposit his treats BEHIND HIM SOMEWHERE 5-6 FEET AWAY......and he WAITS for me WITH HIS BACK TURNED AWAY FROM THE GOODIES while
i give him a patience test then permission to go to get his treats....and even this command or "release"[big difference but the NHS analysis is
proprietary] is managed because when he is given the greenlight to break his pose he LOOKS TO ME FOR HAND-POINTING DIRECTIONS TO THE TREATS HE HAS
PRE-LOCATED BY ALWAYS PEEKING ONCE QUICKLY OVER HIS SHOULDER AND WHICH HE ALREADY HAS A VISUAL LOCATION ON.....he "pretends he needs my directions to
find them and that he is following me".....lol.....in his cat head he is being patient and likely believes I am a "gifted but slower" human
being.......lol....
So if my cat does this...and also plays fetch better than a dog...AND...guards the homestead WITH ABSOLUTE STEALTH by silently getting me and bringing
me to the door long before company hits the front step....AND....he attacks on COMMAND......AND....he eats corn-on-the-cob row by row OFF OF A SMALL
PLATE WITHOUT SPILLING.My cat does SENTRY DUTY LOOKING TO MY COMMAND with anyone new to the digs.....he SITS AT THEIR FEET AT FULL ATTENTION MAKING
EYE-CONTACT WITH COMPANY AND THEN LOOKING TO ME until I give him a body language than a verbal command to stand down[I taught my Himilayan Dwarf
rabbit to do this as well but his temperment was snappy and he was all pepper thumping his feet when I orderded him around....lol ] ...freaks people
the heck out when a 16lb Tabby cat sits at attention by their feet looking like a prison guard until his ownr clearly calls him off......LMAO....
You should have seen one of my Nephews when I gave him sample of what my cat has cooking.....he didnt believe any cat could ever be an
attack-cat....because he had only seen abused afraid or over-coddled suppressed cats.....he had never seen a fearless confident EMPOWERED
CAT.....lol....I let my Nephew cover himself up with my winter parka and set my beast upon him for 5-10 seconds....my Nephew ended up looking like a
6'2 jumping bean as he tried to crawl up the back of the lazy-boy......lol.....the look on his face was and will forever be
PRICELESS......lol.....priceless man.
This is a cat which was the last of his litter and had recieved a 48 hour death sentence because the Vet who had his family turned in deemed his
mother and himself to be "biters".....the mom was going to be put down and so was her last kitten who was constantly biting people and who no one
would take home......when I caught wind of the situation....I balked for 24 hours.....I had many pets and grew up on a farm where cats were an after
thought and we didnt ever even consider bringing them in our house.....I used to do pest control with my .22 when we had to many
litters....nonetheless......I drove down to the vets to check it out.......I didnt like the poor little beestards chances....and it didnt seem
fair...sooooo.....lol.....it took me approximately 10 seconds to decide to take him home...........the dum-dum idiots at the Vets office LOVED HIM and
were soooooo HAPPY I WAS SAVING HIM they even game me his favorite toy[which history taught us almost got him executed]..A RED SHOELACE HE LIKED WHICH
THEY USED TO PLAY WITH HIM.....and the bleedin morons had the nerve to CALL HIM A BITER ????....jeepers he was a kitten with pepper in his blood who
was GIVEN A RED COLORED SHOELACE TO BITE WHICH BROUGHT OUT HIS PURE UNADULTERED KILLER INSTINCT MAKING HIM APPEAR TO BE A BITER.......flipping
idiots.......they were LOVING HIM TO DEATH.......so we made our escape....I tried to go back for his mom 24 hours later but the Vet would not give her
to me claiming rightfully that she would eventually keep trying to drive her kitten away by instinct so they could not live together in close
quarters.
So he turned into a BEAST who I have to keep trimmed down to 16 lbs or he jumps up to 18-19lbs.....and he is not biter.....he CAN BE but so can
I....lol........but he never was a willfull biter....he was always a pure Tabby-Cat......and someone dialed him in with a BLOOD COLORED
SHOELACE...they DIALED AN ENTIRE LITTER OF KITTENS IN WITH RED SHOELACE......and LMAO....none of the others had blood and instincts as pure as this
ones is.....he COULDNT HELP BITING THE BLOOD COLORED SHOELACE....precisely because he was the best in his class....best in his liter.....I FLEECED
THEM BABY.....lol....i was given the privilage of tending to the King....lol.
I did work at the City Zoo as a younger person during my adventures.....sooooo.....combined with my rural background...well maybe I was made to find
the little bugger who is now an old man....lol....its the karmatic full circle thing..if you become honest with yourself...and respect your past
experiences enough to try to learn more than usual from them....if you PUSH YOUR OWN ENVELOPE.....anything can happen.
Before I forget....my cat also verblises the word no in proper situational dynamics only.....in other words he KNOWS THE WORD AND USES IT
APPROPRIATELY AND IN A TIMELY MANNER.
So if you have a cat at home and it doesnt do some of these things...wow...are you ever missing out on the best things in life.....teamwork and
constant learning.
Maybe this is an unfair example because as a kid I was kidnapping Crows and Magpies then teaching them to talk.....lol.
So you see....lol....coaching is secondary to teambuilding......and you must find ways to build up EXPERIENCE which leads by proxy to ACUMEN.
My cat and I are a TEAM or he would tell me to bite myself and do as he pleased like all cats do.....he CHOOSES TO BE A PART OF A TEAM BECAUSE HE
BENEFITS GREATER THAN HE INPUTS......figure it out dum-dums......he is given an OUTLET TO EXPRESS HIMSELF.....the TEAM is HIS CONDUIT to his
identity....his GREATER IDENTITY....the team makes him be MORE THAN HE COULD BE ON HIS OWN.......I think therefore I am.....but if I cannot share the
thought what am I?.....he needs the team dynamic to self-validate.....and meet me in the middle on the same e page....I also need the team dynamic to
self-validate and to meet him on the same page.......so if my cat and I can meet in the middle....why cant a hockey team do it?Maybe they arent
willing because they do not believe in the processes enough to buy in willingly......maybe there is seemingly no upside to them.
An NHL hockey player and an NHL Teammate both earn the same pay cheque......but they are different animals.....there are many many more NHL hockey
players out there than there are NHL Teammates.....there are a lot of Cats out there to but very few Teammates like mine is.
If you cant even make a cat believe in you.....how the heck can you get 23 men to believe in you???
If you CAN make a cat believe in you then....just maybe....you can get 23 men to listen to you.
It cant possibly be this simple right???.........lol......right?
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