reply to post by Gazrok
It's nice to hear a man's perceptive on porn in such a healthy light, lol, and I agree there can be some "humor" and "spice" added to a healthy
relationship by a couple sharing a "naughty" movie.
I think what unfortunately is happening in many cases though, is that access to sooo much porn on the internet, and more and more extreme and violent
porn has warped some men's perception of reality, especially younger men. There was a very interesting thread here recently about the "porn
experiment" and I was really shocked to hear several men chiming in and saying...they needed more and more, preferred it to "actual" women, if women
didn't screw everything up bending gender roles and making men into "wimps" porn wouldn't be so popular?
Now alot of wonderful, loving men like yourself, also chimed in and cared about thier partners feelings, and these men are certainly NOT wimps....and
I honestly don't understand what "power" some men believe they achieve by "degrading", over powering, and reducing women to "stupid whores"....The
term "Bitch" actually sends me off the deep end, and perhaps I even can become one, when I feel my feelings are dismissed, and it becomes a vicious
I don't know, I have really been confused lately, I worry about OP going camping with with so much un-resolved emotions in her heart, I'm heartbroken
hearing green eyes story of abuse, when I think of her being so "in love" hand in hand with her man who tells her she is his future...she takes this
to HEART...makes love to him in the sunshine, and she was happy, I know she was,.....THEN he just turns on her...because she DARES to confront him
about courting other women, as she is laying there naked? WTF? Then he can't even leave it at that, he throws her clothes in a dirty pond, and she has
to walk home wet and broken..
As I write this I am filled with "Flashbacks", that are so awful, humiliating, that I still can not even "wrap my mind around" everything that has
happened. How could I have been sooo dumb? I'm smart, pretty, fun-loving, domestic, sexual, why did he want to hurt me so much? Am I capable of ever
getting over this? I do appreciate the opportunity to work out these feelings here...lol, I'm not OK yet......
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