posted on May, 9 2012 @ 09:40 PM
Let me get this straight.....You find him in another woman's apartment.........it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out they were having
sex..........you both go "home' and you have sex with him later that night ? Why?
What's your point in staying with that douche-bag? Is he really THAT hot is the sack? You said you don't want to turn your life upside down any more
than what it is now by leaving. Sorry, I don't see how that's possible. How on earth could you possibly think your life could be WORSE without him?
That just makes my spin.
I could keep railing on you about this, you make it easy, but I'll try to be nice. You asked why you can't just have a normal relationship? It could
be that when you're in one, you hold onto it. When you leave it or leaves you, you go find another one. Seems to me that in some weird way, you get
off on the pain.
This may sound harsh, but if you really want to attract a man of high caliber who you can have a "normal" relationship with, who you can look in the
eyes and just "know" they're the one, then you you need to step up your own game. Become the type of person you want to attract. Birds of a feather
honey, they do flock together.
It might sound like a big leap, but you CAN go from this:
The fact that you even posted what you did, out of frustration too no less, tells me that you're ready for a change. You know what he's doing is
wrong and you know that you're wrong for putting up with it. You may have confidence issues, but they're not so big that you can't overcome them.
The first step in getting your confidence back to where you can attract a better class of man.......is wanting to. You might also think that you're
damaged goods at this point and.........who would want you anyway? I haven't seen a scar so deep yet that it can't heal.
And don't look back.
Otherwise you'll be stuck with sh** like this for the rest of your life:
I'm a man and I may have done some questionable things in my day, but what he's putting you through is just flat-out bulls**t.