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Originally posted by CX
I used to work at a school looking after kids that had, without going into too much detail, a not so good life up till then. These kids were violent at times though and we had a set restraint policy and system we employed for these occasions if needed.
Many times i have been in a public place, holding a kid.....with the kid shouting out all kinds of stuff to get the public to attack me, claims of rape, abduction and the likes....and oddly enough we never had anyone approach us either. Whilst it was handy that we weren't pestered by anyone whilst we were trying to keep the child safe, it was also very worrying that nobody even bothered to at least question why we were holding a kid that was protesting.
I would most definately have done something, i don't care if it's a misunderstanding. I feel the same about those people who have claimed they have seen adults with a girl that looked exactly like the missing girl Madaleine McCann. Why the hell don't they approach the adult and stop them?
If i were to see a kid i was 100% sure was abducted, i would stop the "parent" and create merry hell until the cops came and cleared it up. With missing Maddy the eye disorder is a big giveaway. I don't think any genuine parent would mind you at least enquiring and taking a closer look.
CX.
Originally posted by Unity_99
"Do you need help? Is everything all right?"
That was it, and by the time I ran out the door, they were walking off body language turned in towards each other, obviously a lovers spat.
Originally posted by facelift
reply to post by sugarcookie1
lol
Love it...not one white person stopped, yet the two that DID do something probably have been racially profiled most of their lives.
Good on 'em...
As to the rest...you suck.
Originally posted by sugarcookie1
I don't think any good parent would mind either if a person was to enquirer and take a closer look ..
Originally posted by Unity_99
reply to post by Maxatoria
Some of us do not carry makeup and digging for a pen in the bottom of a big bag, would not be worth the time, but actually asking if the person is alright and needs help is a good idea and then if so, joining in the yelling for help and for someone to call 9/11, and doing what one can, talk the guy down if possible, react if needed.
Originally posted by NoRegretsEver
Hands down, one time, every time, I would rather look like an idiot who made to much of something, then be the person who saw something and did nothing, and a child or adult was harmed.
Years ago, I was in need of assistance, and no one helped, and thankfully I was able to get away, since then, I have made it my business to be vigilant, especially for those who cannot speak up for themselves. No I wouldn't consider myself a detective, but just knowing the color of car, clothing of the child, or even the first number of a license plate, can in fact make a hell of a difference.
The fact that thousands of children are abducted every year, women are abused outdoors, and kids are bullied on street corners, is an alarm loud enough for me to care.
S&F,
NoRegretsEver
What a great post thank you! And your right the key word is vigilant ..There is so much abuse going on in this world its disturbing..Look whats going on in some nursing homes old folks getting beat and starved i just read an article about this in my local news just makes me sick! peace,sugarcookie1
Peace, NRE.
Originally posted by DelMarvel
Originally posted by sugarcookie1
I don't think any good parent would mind either if a person was to enquirer and take a closer look ..
And once again the key term here is "good parent."
There are horrible interactions in public between child and adult all the time; most of the time it's not abduction and much of the time the parents don't necessarily seem open to rational enquiry.
Originally posted by OrchusGhule
I'm not certain, but this seems a little unfair. What happens if you kick the guy's ass, take the child away from him, and then YOU are charged with attempted kidnapping when it turns out he actually is the father? I've seen children beat their parents, spit on them, call them all sorts of names, and run away from them. How are we to determine who is who in such a situation?
I don't think the blame should be placed entirely on onlookers here. Police have convinced most "regular" citizens that they should not protect themselves or anyone else for that matter, because they, the police, are best trained to take care of the situation. Its ridiculous to rely on the police for protection, of course, but most people don't take that stance. "Someone else will take care of it" is the defining motto of the past 2 or 3 generations. Kind of hard to change that.
Originally posted by VoidHawk
I'm six an a half foot tall and I MOST DEFINATELY would have been in that persons face demanding proof of who he was, sod the law. Would I get charged if I was wrong? dont care as I believe any court would understand why I'd done it.
Dont like these fake child abduction things, stinks of trying to scare people into chipping their kids.
Just spotted someones comment about parents. My daughter was shopping with her 3 year old, a lady stopped her and said
"I just wanted to say what a good mother you are, sometimes I go home in tears when I see how people treat their children"
My daughter said she had to leave the shop before SHE started cryingedit on 3-5-2012 by VoidHawk because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by sugarcookie1
Originally posted by VoidHawk
I'm six an a half foot tall and I MOST DEFINATELY would have been in that persons face demanding proof of who he was, sod the law. Would I get charged if I was wrong? dont care as I believe any court would understand why I'd done it.
Dont like these fake child abduction things, stinks of trying to scare people into chipping their kids.
Just spotted someones comment about parents. My daughter was shopping with her 3 year old, a lady stopped her and said
"I just wanted to say what a good mother you are, sometimes I go home in tears when I see how people treat their children"
My daughter said she had to leave the shop before SHE started cryingedit on 3-5-2012 by VoidHawk because: (no reason given)
VoidHawk
Point is were not all 6 feet tall..I'm a very tiny person and barely weight 100 pounds wouldn't take anything for me to get hurt but id still stand up to what i felt was wrong but just do it in a very different fashion like call the police or make a fuss so others step in also..peace,sugarcookie1
Originally posted by VoidHawk
Originally posted by sugarcookie1
Originally posted by VoidHawk
I'm six an a half foot tall and I MOST DEFINATELY would have been in that persons face demanding proof of who he was, sod the law. Would I get charged if I was wrong? dont care as I believe any court would understand why I'd done it.
Dont like these fake child abduction things, stinks of trying to scare people into chipping their kids.
Just spotted someones comment about parents. My daughter was shopping with her 3 year old, a lady stopped her and said
"I just wanted to say what a good mother you are, sometimes I go home in tears when I see how people treat their children"
My daughter said she had to leave the shop before SHE started cryingedit on 3-5-2012 by VoidHawk because: (no reason given)
VoidHawk
Point is were not all 6 feet tall..I'm a very tiny person and barely weight 100 pounds wouldn't take anything for me to get hurt but id still stand up to what i felt was wrong but just do it in a very different fashion like call the police or make a fuss so others step in also..peace,sugarcookie1
Sorry, didnt make myself clear. That was the point I as going to make but got sidetracked. I was merely pointing out what I would have done, because I could.
I know not everyone could but it reminded me of a case in the uk where a child was killed in a street by a dog and not one person tried to stop it. When you have something happen in a main street there are plenty of people able to do something but they dont.
In cases like your op if people are not physicaly able to interfere they could at least shout from afar while calling the police.
Originally posted by jewells
I think alot more people would stop & help if the child were yelling "A stranger is trying to take me, Call the police".
Teaching them to say 'Help, you're not my dad', can be too easily confused with a child being rebellious.
Truth is, I probably would'nt have intervened with the original wording, but I would in a heartbeat upon hearing "A stranger is trying to take me,call the police".