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Originally posted by stuthealien
reply to post by coop039
sounds more like he was trying to give her a wedgie ,pull her pants up her backcrack,so it may be the case that your son is a bully and was trying to humiliate this girl,i dont expect you to think clearly about this as it is your son ,and as such you can see no wrong in this....
but please try to consider this from all sides,maybe just maybe your son is guilty
This man say to his wife one saturday evening "Just going to get the paper, love."
"Ok, Henry, but you come right back. No going to the pub."
Henry leaves, slamming the door behind.
45 minutes later, Henry staggers back in, slurring his speech and sporting two black eyes!
"YOU WENT TO THE PUB, DIDN'T YOU HENRY!" his wife screamed!
"No love, there was this woman, on the bus. She got on, and the bus was pretty full, so she ended up standing in front of me! And, well, her skirt was wedged in her bum. So I though I'd be polite, and see if I could just pull it out for her."
"Yes Henry...", she sneered.
"Well, she caught me, and gave me this bloody black eye here on my left eye!"
"And your RIGHT Eye?" she said, cornering him.
"Well, I thought she must have wanted it there, so I put it back."
Originally posted by UberL33t
I have experienced something similar to this with one of my kids about 8 years ago (she's 17 now), however the charge by the principal was theft and my child is female, but the punishment was going to be the same, suspension. The item at hand was a pack of markers that was property of the teacher that my daughter felt looked wayyyy better in her possession, so she took them.
I was livid at this school for having the audacity to accuse my little girl of thievery. Even more when I asked her account of what took place. From her sweet little lips came this story of innocence and utter betrayal by the other student involved and I fell for it hook, line, and sinker.
The thing I want to caution you with, is kids, aren't stupid, but they are, if that makes sense?
My daughter, in the case, exploited the fact that she was Daddy's little girl and I went to bat with it, with all but accusing the school and the principal of blatant harassment.
Then I went in to the school (with my daughter) and was presented the evidence by which they based their decision. After that, I quickly realized I was played like a fiddle. Once my daughter realized that the hole she dug herself was now too deep to escape, she sobbingly confessed the true account of what had actually occurred.
She fortunately was not suspended as the humiliation she endured was determined to be punishment enough, that and the explanation of what the worst case scenario in the real world could have been by making the decision to swipe the teachers markers.
Get the full story first, then react and make your decisions accordingly, is the moral to this post.edit on 4/25/2012 by UberL33t because: punc.