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Originally posted by Klassified
reply to post by coop039
I wish you the best of luck. DCFS, CPS, are very unethical and underhanded. Never forget that for a moment.
Originally posted by petrus4
Originally posted by Furbs
It wasn't your son's responsibility to remedy the situation, and it was certainly a breach of the little girl's rights to be touched by your son in any way she did not wish to be touched.
The school doesn't need to account for your son's age, that is for the authorities to deal with. They reported the incident, which was their obligation under existing precedent. Said authorities have decided that the action requires further investigation.
Teach your child to keep his hands to himself in the future.
I really don't know how to respond, when I read posts like this. The first thing that I generally have to do, is count to ten, take several deep breaths, and remind myself not to feel violent towards the poster.
Seriously...someone help me, here. How do we communicate with someone who expresses this type of opinion? Is there honestly any way to reach people who are so imbued with the "state security and safety at any cost," mentality?
Since you've decided the majority of teachers are incompetent imbeciles, perhaps you should consider a career in education. Share your expertise with educators.
Make a difference. Or I guess you can continue to insult those who truly care and are dedicating their lives to working with children.
Originally posted by pheonix358
Originally posted by Helmkat
Would you tolerate such behavoir from an adult that you or your child did not know?
No you would not.
Your son should know not to touch -anyone-without their permission.
We teach our children all the time to be wary of such advances.
If your son reached in the girls pants and pulled them up, well, there you go, n'uff said.
As to it being "sexual", by virtue of being Human we are sexual from the moment we grow in the womb. He might not understand what he did, but any adult should.
edit on 25-4-2012 by Helmkat because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Furbs
Taking a single offender out of a class of dozens of children is now 'safety at all costs'?
Now that you have had your emotional response, care to chime in with an analytical one?
Originally posted by LastProphet527
reply to post by coop039
What in the world are you teaching your child at home MR.!
You just can’t do certain things in front of your son like that; you do know that kids mimic what they see and they do what they think is right. It’s a shame kids have to get in trouble do to their parents indiscretions of what they show or do around there kids.
i just dont believe this !
Now the child is in trouble because of you...i will pray,not for you,but for your child.
Originally posted by LadyJae
Poor little ones. They aren't allowed to be children anymore.
Perhaps the best defense is a good offense. It would seem your son was defending himself against a sexual assault by the young girl.
So very, very sad
Is anyone here thinking what this little girl experienced? A boy just comes up to her and yanks at her pants? Yeah, try that with me and see what you get.
Originally posted by billiam
In your case OP, I think the actions being taken are extreme and its a tragedy that common sense has all but died, but the ignorance of certain parents today not monitoring what their children watch or listen to has led us into an age that sexual harassment is even considered in situations such as these.
Originally posted by poet1b
reply to post by LastProphet527
From my understanding, the clergy is firmly in favor of exposed grade school butt crack.
Apparently many people on this thread are for it as well, being that they are eager to condemn the boy, but only a few of us have brought up that the girl shouldn't be wearing pants that show her butt crack, and especially not to school.
It is was a boy showing his butt crack, they would have probably given the girl an award for pulling up his pants, and then water boarded the boy. Sexism has gone so far in this country, with discrimination against males, that we have become the opposite of the Taliban, and not in a good way.
Actually we do worse, we are now labeling 7 yr olds as sex offenders.
edit on 25-4-2012 by poet1b because: add last line
Originally posted by LilDudeissocool
Originally posted by LastProphet527
reply to post by coop039
What in the world are you teaching your child at home MR.!
You just can’t do certain things in front of your son like that; you do know that kids mimic what they see and they do what they think is right. It’s a shame kids have to get in trouble do to their parents indiscretions of what they show or do around there kids.
i just dont believe this !
Now the child is in trouble because of you...i will pray,not for you,but for your child.
Certain butts are simply disgusting and should never be shown in public.
And where did you get the idea the kid learned pulling up pants to cover a disgusting butt was taught by the child's father?
Did I miss something?