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Originally posted by capob
reply to post by Screwed
You do bring up a good point that the inability to go alone to these places may stem from low self esteem. And, I would say, the solution is not to start with "I am valuable" but rather that "No one is terribly valuable"
Originally posted by petrus4
Originally posted by capob
reply to post by Screwed
You do bring up a good point that the inability to go alone to these places may stem from low self esteem. And, I would say, the solution is not to start with "I am valuable" but rather that "No one is terribly valuable"
Why do you consider devaluation a solution?
Originally posted by capob
If the problem is a lack of a sense of value i relation to others, then the two options are either to increase one's sense of one's value, or to decrease the value seen in others. And, the devaluation solutions is a response to what can occasionally be an overvaluation of other people. For instance, someone always thinking "what will they think if I do this or that". The question should be -> what does it matter what they think?
Originally posted by Suspiria
You know this guy might be onto something.
I used to be a Bard got bored, changed jobs and became a Sensate of Sharess many, many, many moons ago.
Now I still sing in public occasionally, and last night languished sipping drinks in local titty bar temple.
Admittedly it's been a while since I fought a Harpy, last time I did that the landlord barred me.