posted on Apr, 14 2012 @ 08:28 PM
reply to post by SplitInfinity
Continued....These Men or Boys probably became physically abusive from being abused and without a STRONG MOTHER and a STRONG AND CARING
FATHER....it is easy for an abused child to become what was done to them. I have seen this with my own eyes when a Next Door...was being beat by his
Step Father....Mother REFUSED TO ADMIT what was happening even though there were bruises on the kid....friend of my close family member came running
into my Parents house just as I had gotten back in I believe 83 from Training. My Parents were not home and I was upstairs as this poor Kids Step
Father pushed passed an threw to the ground my Family member to get at his Step Son using a Leather Belt with the Buckle part in his hand.
I ran down the stairs and tried to talk to this guy but was responded to with a swipe at my body with the hand with the Metal Belt Buckle. He drinks
food through a Straw now and has to have his legs moved every so often not to get Blood Clots. I have no regrets in this matter because I saw in his
eyes and clear into his soul...if he has one...he would have done ANYTHING to get at that poor kid and bash him...his mistake was he did this in MY
PARENTS HOUSE and struck and threw down my Family member. THESE ARE THE LITTLE MAN/BOYS THAT YOU SPEAK OF!
Thankfully...this abused kid got Married has a good job and LOVES HIS KIDS! But some who are not able to see justice exacted from an abuser....may
turn into abusers themself as they are damaged and it is all they know....and even though there is NO EXCUSE....there is HELP AVAILABLE that can save
a persons mental health and life.
As far as White Men...ESPECIALLY ALPHAS...like me....understand that a TRUE ALPHA does not need to prove themself by what they threaten to do....a
true Alpha....cares more for the people around them than their own life because that is what being the Top Dog or Leader is about...doing what is best
for the MAJORITY. They also will NEVER initiate a fight or showdown....they will finish a fight if they are protecting the people they love or
themselves....but are not petty...and will not rub a persons defeat in their Mental Nose...all this does is generate more HATE.
And one thing is for certain...an Alpha...will NEVER act in a manner that has them talking in Third Person or NEVER will they use the
word...PLAYA...as in Player or a person who can manipulate the opposite sex. For an ALPHA...this is not necessary. The most attractive thing to a
Woman that I know of is their curiosity....VERY GOOD LOOKS HELP OBVIOUSLY....but get a Woman curious about you and they will try to become YOUR FRIEND
before you ever initiate anything.
Some people freek out at being in the "FRIEND ZONE!" But that is the place to be...a person who a woman is curious about and wishes to learn more
about...who is kind as well as polite to not only Her and her friends or acquantances...but is kind and polite to other people. But this Man must
always be seen in her eyes as a MAN and not some questionaire out of COSMO who makes the mistake of asking her repeatedly about her feelings or past
experiences. A true Man will listen...but will not allow anyone...female or not...to expound on Hatred or Concepts that are simply and provably not
The reason I said all this is that I object to the concept that all White Men are the only Race and Gender that make problems in this world....and
although some may disagree...if we had more EDUCATED, TRAINED, SELF SACRIFICING, SELF AWARE, NON-HOMOPHOBIC, LOVERS OF WHAT WOMEN ARE AND WHAT WOMEN
ARE CAPABLE OF....alot of our problems would be solved. How do I know this for sure? It is one of my Jobs...to solve problems that others will
either not care about or will not attempt. THIS...is where you seperate the Men from the Boy's and I have known and respect some tuff Women in
support positions....but even though Women can be stronger than Men in Many aspects...My Job is not one of them...but I will trust their Intell and I
will certainly not have issue with an idea in this arena being a Womans as some Men do....but have a bit little Faith...their are GOOD WHITE MEN OUT
THERE....who have Moms that would KICK THEIR ASS if they ever got out of line.
My MOM is "CIVILIAN" as am I....she worked on issues like I do now before I was born. She is old now but if I visit on Thanksgiving and I spill a
bit of gravy on the stove and she catches me....I AM TERRIFIED! I am 6 ft. 1 inch and all muscle and she is 5 ft 2 inches of...if she wants to
be...MEAN AND DEVIOUS on a level that scares even me. I would rather be looking down the barrel of a Weapon than be grabbed by her...YOU ARE DEAD
MEAT GAZE! Split Infinity