posted on Apr, 6 2012 @ 04:02 AM
Originally posted by bhornbuckle75
reply to post by KewlDaddyFatty
Eh, to be honest.....If a girl I was dating, or married to posted something like that to someones page, I'd just shrug it off and say "huh....he
sounds like a nice a guy". For all you know the guy is gay......but even if not, I don't see such a post as meaning anything. I get crap that like
posted to my FB page by girls from time to time......Doesn't mean I'm 'doing' them.
But what if (as has happened to the OP) your girl/wife told you that she doesn't love you and that during a 5 month break you had the year before, she
was seeing this guy/talking to this guy?
I kinda agree with you, "big deal".... but there are other factors in the incident, this isn't just a one off harmless post on FB (If we are to
believe the OP)
** My advice to the OP**
Get out of the relation ship man.... at least officially end it anyway.
Try and work something out whereby you both can live at the place you're at for the kids sake and for financial reasons, but as soon as you have the
money, get a place yourself... just a little place, not too far so you can see the kids.
You don't want this dragging on any longer as it wont do your sanity, your health or the possible relationship (friendship) that you and your wife
MUST have for the sake of your kids.
Drinking and posting all of this on ATS as it happens is probably not the best thing, but I understand.... you're seeking advice and need someone to
Just say enough is enough..... She is obviously winding you up and she has blatantly told you to your face that she's not really into it/you any
So accept that and say to her that's fine... and try and work out a living arrangement (short term) that suits you both financially and allows you to
explain it to the kids and give you both some breathing space and time.
Living in any environment like that (that is toxic) is not good for anyone.
Good luck mate.
edit on 6/4/12 by blupblup because: (no reason given)