posted on Apr, 5 2012 @ 06:43 PM
reply to post by KewlDaddyFatty
you yourself said it hasn't been that great. her telling you that she doesn't know if she loves you anymore...was her polite way of saying it's
over but she can't quite say it yet cuz everyone knows divorce is a real pain in the butt.
sounds like y'all are in the beginning stages of divorce. telling you she doesn't know if she loves you and then flirting with other people...sounds
like it's over.
to the person who told you to suck it up and pay more attention to her needs, please. that's such a bs guilt trip. people grow up...people
change...and unfortunately, most people in relationships grow apart. it's natural.
i don't buy the whole life long partner package. i think it is possible and i think there are exceptions but over all...i think relationships are
lessons. you and that person entered into a contract to teach each other something for a designated period of time. once you've taught each other all
you can, it's time to find a new class!
i think too many people spend way too much energy trying to save a relationship that they know is alreayd dead because you're told that that is what
you should do if you truly love(d) someone. i call shannagins!
all deaths are just the beginning of another birth. the death of your marriage will be the birth of new lives for the both of you. celebrate the good
times and move on.