Im not normally one to post in this thread..
but, well im really struggling atm.
mid last year I met a girl.. the girl of my dreams.
life was great.
I knew she was from the middle east, but it was never a problem.
shed drink, she'd party we'd make out.
I told her id move to Sydney for her and make a life here with her..
life was good life was happy.
I went around the world on a trip that was planned before her, she let me go.. as long as I came back..
but the muslim thing caused issues..
she couldnt ever spend the night with me.. we'd argue..
she couldnt sleep with me.. but i was ok to wait..
i asked her if i could meet her parents so we could get that ball rolling.. but she wouldnt let me..
so i went on my trip.
while on my trip I was offered a job with BAE in london.. but i turned it down. Afterall I told her id come home to sydney and build a life with
while on this trip we had a discussion, where i made her PROMISE to tell her parents about me when i got home....
i came home.. i found a job... i lived in hostels...
she never told her parents!
She said if i had my own house it would be easier.. so, i fork out the money and i get my own house..
she promised me she'd tell her mum good bye if she ever made her choose..
on xmas morning her mum finally had enough and told her to choose between the family, or me..
she chose the family.
... so we fought and argued... i ended up moving out of the house selling what i had and haeding home.. afterall there was nothing in sydney for me,
accept this girl.
at home we talked... we still loved each other.. so she promised me, if i came back and did it again she'd make her mum accept us.. she'd argue with
so... i quit my job and i came back.. she was my soul mate and i was prepared to do this..
I come home, i find a job i live in hostels.. i then find a rental..
she still hasnt told her mum
she refuses to post anything about us on facebook.. she lies to her sisters that we are hanging out.
its not at the stage where we argue all the time.. she's so unwilling to do anything for me.. and im realy lost.
I love her and i dont want to lose her.. but i feel everything ive done, the least she could do is post a photo of us on facebook, or tell her sisters
she's spending the day with me at manly..
am I being an assh0le?
cause i feel like one!
I dont want to lose her, but i cant keep going like this...