posted on Mar, 31 2012 @ 08:37 PM
reply to post by Druid42
Never, ever forget there are two sides to every story.
Before I seperated, my husband and I weren't intimate for a year.
He would tell people that I stole money, that I had a drug problem, and I didn't care about him or my son.
meanwhile, he has the drug problem, I spent two years solely taking care of our son because of his third dui, and the man was extremely selfish.
Sleeping with him felt like sleeping with the enemy.
What he didn't tell people is that he hid inheritance money from me,because all I wanted was a cheap laptop (our computer was an athalon II if that
tells you anything) and he was abusive.
Are there instances when one spouse is crappy? Yes.
But you can't assume the poster is revealing everything. Or in real life too for that matter.
The poster didn't do this, but my experience has been that if someone covinces you that their ex partner is horrible, and they never take
responsibility for their failing the relationship, then you usually find out that they were the aholes.