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1.) Hiring a billboard with their names on it. A billboard can generally be rented for $200-300 per month, some down-on-their-luck companies may rent you one for just a month.
2.) Make up a flyer with their pictures, names, and quotes of the texts (you need to save those for proof by the way) and distribute it in their neighborhoods, or at their workplaces, or both.
3.) Notify her husband with what you have found.
4.) Notify your husbands relatives and/or any of her relatives you can find with what you have found.
5.) See if a lawyer will represent you on a contingency basis and sue her civilly for alienation of affection.
Originally posted by antinwo101
I don't care what some of you are going to say in any negative aspects about my thread! To make a long story short I want revenge on my cheating ex-boyfriend!!!! He is a personal trainer and the slut he cheated with is married so she is just as disgusting as he is! they bot had sex with each other in my home and hers while me and the husband were at work! I was a single mom when i met him, he helped me raise my daughter and she calls him dad. My daughter is now 5 years old!
Not only did he devastate me, My poor baby girl is going to be devastated when she realizes daddy isn't coming home and i can't tell her why! I have no idea how i am going to explain this to her! I read his texts in his phone when i got curious who was texting him at 2am and there it was, about 30 texts all about the sex they had and where to meet up next very gruesome details and with each word i read my heart broke a more and more! Never in my life have i felt physical ill from an emotion i actually lost my dinner.
He was texting this woman after we made love before he fell asleep the night i read the texts! I have snapped, the only way i am going to feel one ounce of happiness is if i can pull off some good old fashion, down home, evil inhalation on both of them! now i don't want to hear REVENGE ISN'T THE ANSWER! Bullcrap it isn't! I have some really intelligent compadres on here and i want some crazy awesome ideas! I am a scorned woman on a mission! so lets have it!
In my time of need i want some advice and great ideas on what i should do! I have researched her and found out her cell number, home address, where she works, info on family friends. I am trying to find out her husbands cell cant figure that one out, i do know her husband has been arrested for a DUI last year, but thats about it!
so come on my evil devious friends help a pi$$ed off sister out! a PERSON CAN ONLY BE PUSHED SO FAR. AND I BROKE!!!! He and she are going down!!!!!!! Believe me or not i am a very quiet calm person until you mess with me or my child!
I do want to keep things as legal as possible though! I mainly need to know on how to do more extensive research!
From a woman who understand how it feels to be cheated on but trust me getting even can backfire so just move on. The old folks always said "what goes around comes around" and they were right. He'll get his due without any lifting of your fingers.
No, no you don't. Your ego does, but you don't. Revenge is petty - if all you want to do is divide by zero, then by all means, continue, but that's a whole lotta nothin'. I've gone through a lot of bull in my life but I've learned to move on and not waste my energy for no reason. As an above poster said, just shift the energy to your daughter rather than to your offenders. You'll feel better, don't worry! Give it a chance to pass.
I Want revenge!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Originally posted by Openeye
reply to post by antinwo101
Forgive him and move on. I don't approve of cheaters and deceivers as well, but expressing rage is destructive.]
Originally posted by antinwo101
reply to post by boncho
If you actually read my thread, you would see that it is my daughter, not his....we raised her together so she calls him dad! My daughter has no idea what is going on and will not know what has happened! I would never do anything to put my daughter in harms way physically or emotionally thank you!