Ladies of ATS, your honest opinion please. Why am I single?

reply to post by lostangel818


If I new how I would, but I am slightly technologically illiterate. Stupid Arkansas schools never taught, a thing.

reply to post by yzfr6003


Thanks but no thanks, I'll stick to being labeled a nice guy, rather than a douche.

You are openly bisexual and you wonder why a woman is not attracted to you? Hello in there! Why should she put forth any effort when the next guy you meet you suddenly want to "celebrate" with? If were a woman and met yourself, would you want to go out with you?

First, you've got to be in the position of NOT CARING if you get with someone or not. If you are putting out vibes like you're saying here, then here's how women see you:



Not such a hot pic, right? If you are acting like a Beta Male, particularly with your bi-sexual schtick, that is simply not attractive to women. It shows weakness and indecision. "You don't even know if you're gay or not? Good Lord! What a wuss!" Here's a somewhat jaded site in terms of attitude, The Alpha Male. Click on "The Basics of Game" to get a perspective that is somewhat different than the usual politically correct advice.

reply to post by KwisatzHaderach


LMAO, my sister tried it in for the State of AK and the whole family got a good laugh....

Harmony.com paired her perfect match with her last EX-Boyfriend she dated for two years.....

reply to post by KwisatzHaderach


Okay, then expand your horizons. Go shopping, in other words. If you are religious, church gatherings might be an idea. If your into sports, there's another opportunity.

I know someone already suggested it, but consider eharmony. I did it on a dare.
We married a year later. Tomorrow is our sixth anniversary. I've never been happier.

Good luck to you!

reply to post by schuyler


Is that Napolian Dynimite's brother???

reply to post by schuyler


Wow seriously, I don't know if I'm gay or not. Dude seriously, being bi doesn't mean you don't know if your gay or not. I am sexually attracted to both men and women. If I go for a man I go for the effeminate dudes. Also it's kind of hard to seem overbearing and powerful when your short. And I don't need to change my attitude to being an ass because that's not who I am.

reply to post by smyleegrl

Im not into sports other than martial arts, and am an Athiest, so where other than here would one go to talk about philosophy, politics, history, music, art, space, and food.

Originally posted by KwisatzHaderach
reply to post by schuyler

 

Wow seriously, I don't know if I'm gay or not.

Dude seriously, being bi doesn't mean you don't know if your gay or not. I am sexually attracted to both men and women. If I go for a man I go for the effeminate dudes. Also it's kind of hard to seem overbearing and powerful when your short. And I don't need to change my attitude to being an ass because that's not who I am.

No one is suggesting you be overbearing. I know quite a few short men who are, BTW. You ask the question. We provide the answer. You accept it or don't. There's a reason you are single. No woman wants to be your Mommy. If you take offense at the suggestions my guess is you'll never figure it out.

reply to post by KwisatzHaderach


Your local pool hall or in front of the corner drugstore.

reply to post by schuyler


Thanks but I dont look like a twelve year old, I grew that same mustache in fourth grade. Also I am confident this is more out of perplexsion than despair.

reply to post by AK907ICECOLD


Lol that might work, they're at the same place Walmart.

Your problem is being openly bi
Why would a girl want to date you when you're out there saying you like guys too. Obviously other women are going to talk trash and its going to embarrass her. Some things should be kept personal between you and her. Some women are not going to take a chance being left for a man. That's too much for a woman



This is me and my girlfriends advice

reply to post by KwisatzHaderach


College classes? Community events? Block parties?

Browse your local bookstore, see who visits frequently.

Originally posted by yzfr6003
Dude listen to my advice ^. If you try and be her friend thats what youll be...her friend! Dont listen to that sh*t!

essentially being the most badassed alpha male to ever walk the planet?

reply to post by CaLyps0


Ya other than the fact that, that wouldn't happen. I'm not going to leave a woman for a guy, because I prefer women. If they can't accept that it's their problem not mine, I can't help my sexual urges.

reply to post by KwisatzHaderach


bell bottoms and bi sexual will scare off 95% good luck with that....lol

reply to post by smyleegrl


I'll have to try that thank you. Man it's harder getting good advice than I thought lol.

reply to post by outandopen


Ya thanks that's not really constructive criticism, and I have to wear them because regular jeans get stuck around my calf muscles. You can't even tell looks like normal jeans.

reply to post by yourmaker


Wow it's like listening to my own joke thread. What not to do.